my god, how tacky


Who would ever even think about doing a movie about this?

Abortion is pretty much a big thing. Do Not act like it isn't.
Abortion should be something you do when you're really out of options, like the kid is very sick or something. Not just cause you don't want it.
Would be like burning down a house cause you don't like the microwave color.

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You can die giving birth. Your business gets stretched. You have to choose between giving up your baby to adoption(which means the kid could get damaged by his new parents/parents' habitat) or being slave to your child for the rest of your days. Your kid could end up murdering someone. If you get a c section, scars. If you're religious, you go to hell. If you're not religious and it turns out Christianity is real, you go to hell. Did you not notice that she thought all of these things the minute she got told she was pregnant? If not, I feel sorry for you.

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ridiculous reply above. So much so, doesn't deserve going through point by point.
You should be named NOdrmatt (and go from there. Sure the DESTRUCTION applies. Maybe you're an abortionist).

You feel sorry for the POSTER? You kidding me?
I & the world feel sorry for you. You obviously need a brain & we are glad you are NOT procreating. I love the "kid could end up murdering someone"....maybe with YOUR genes perhaps, otherwise WHO in their right mind would worry such craziness...ALL sorts of possibilities exist & THAT'S the one you pick to focus on.
YOu are one of the most self-absorbed persons roaming the world & you likely are too obtuse to realize it. So here's ANOTHER sorry for YOU!!

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So you're saying if you lived a trillion lives in a trillion different universes, not one of your 1-6 trillion kids would murder someone? That's where I'm going with that one. And you can't predict the future. No one can. You call ME self absorbed when you speak for 6+ billion people? I actually don't consider myself smart so I'll agree with you on that point. I actually quit a job because I wanted them to not be around an annoying person like me. I loved them too much to be a sore spot in their day. I can barely stand me and I'm me. Lol. I am so scared for my kids' futures but I'll gladly do my best to help them be productive members of society.

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No wait. This person is even more idiotic.

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You can die giving birth? what are the odds? is this some kind of excuse for abortion? are you serious or something?

second : giving up a child to adoption means he is gonna live, and everyone prefers to live rather then being dead, even if this means being adopted. the odds to finish in a bad family are the same of growing up in a bad family when you ar eborn.

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It's one of many. Which adds up to it being 50/50 for having a kid against not having a kid. And don't forget, gays adopt.

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Dunno where to begin because I can't jump into your head & figure out what you are saying, to be honest.
But just on hunch that "speaking for 6 billion people" comment applies to me (it's a crap shoot which of us), no lie....I can't rebut what I don't comprehend being asserted.
I don't see where I, or anyone else, claimed to speak for the world.
I think just (taking a stab here) we MIGHT be trying to speak for ONE person, the unborn baby. Or we have an opinion. One in which we're all entitled.
But hey one baby...six billion, same thing right?
Or maybe you are suggesting to NOT favor abortion is to make claim for all the world, dunno.
IF so, maybe not an outrageous extrapolation.

And yes, gays can adopt. So what? I have NO idea what that means or has to do with anything. But then, I am not a doctor, maybe I need to return to school to become one to speak with you. I guess I'll have to get back to you once I enlighten (or better LIGHTEN..lol!) my mind.

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Thought you were religious. Which is why I said that gays adopt. If God is real, gays go to hell. And it's not a human being until it is in the 2nd or 3rd trimester(or whenever it is 4 months in the womb. I dunno the specifics). I am not speaking for others because I am saying that they should have a choice to abort a fetus(that is not a human)that could turn into a tax frauder or not someday. I am somewhat judgy of people that do get themselves into a situation where they have to choose between aborting or not but I'd rather them be happy than go through 9 months of hell. And do you care about babies aged 5 to 99? I wish I could help more people out but I'm currently poor. But I hope to be rich someday and donate millions to charities and 1,000s of hours to doing charity work.

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a Giant "HUH?..." back at ya! Forget God..you must confuse yourself with Him since you know EXACTLY when life begins. Must be something to know the VERY SECOND a bunch of cells SUDDENLY turn into a human being!!

Maybe you can share that PRECISE moment it turns into a baby with ALL the scientists & persons in the world (given the controversy surrounding just that!). Think about it....would not the WORLD be waiting to hear from you since you write you have that answer!
NO?
OH, hmm.....what could I have gotten wrong here? (lol)
Reading you literally, taking your statements seriously!

And funnier than that--well maybe equal-- is all your other wild assumptions.
I know you will think I'm joking here (I am not)....I hope you never stop writing, no kidding there...I have to get amusement where I can.
Life is short. Maybe you feel the same & THAT accounts for your compositions.

Because here too, I LOVE where you also assert defiantly, boldly & clearly (as thus you should given YOU'RE GOD) that according to religion (I will take it you mean ALL...lol!) gays must be doomed to hell.
I don't know WHERE you were unfortunate enough to be schooled.
Or if you ever were.
But please DO let me enlighten you that MOST religions leave the JUDGING up to God & as human beings, we can follow whatever theological beliefs we are FREE to (& btw we have total right to our beliefs AND opinions!) but above all, I think YOU might be surprised most of us believe, in the end, of the total overwhelming & mysterious MERCY of God & that HE alone judges us, not each other. Not how it works. Thankfully no fear, it's all in God's hands. I shudder to think if it were left in the hands of perhaps well-intended but flawed human beings (yeah, I include myself. Everyone is flawed)
But a big SIGH here....Thankfully not yours. (Ideally you can follow that you see I was kidding. I can't get beyond how YOU just depicted yourself as KNOWING something only GOD can so I had to allow some VERY deserved amusement here).
That doesn't mean some persons don't subscribe to that general tenet (about gays, back to that)....some may or may not hold certain beliefs. In truth, all up to them (& no, just for clarity, not that it's of consequence but have no problem adding...I'm not gay, I am married to my husband) but to make HUGE intolerant swipes like you did, well....that is rather ironic since you are making FUN of those YOU deem to be intolerant (who's the real intolerant person here? And I am wrong when pointing at you??!)

OH but other than knowing when life begins (your GOD complex) I think maybe second most amusing is the "9 mths of HELL" line! So funny.
I dunno WHERE you derive your information from, again, I can only sit enormously bemused. All the while, maybe assume your Mom told you she went through NINE mths of torture bringing you into the world.
I mean, I am NOT trying to be mean --I realize how cruel that reads--but that's the only conclusion I can bring myself to because I have NO idea of the basis of anything you've written so far.

OH next. Best line maybe!! .............
care about "babies 5 to 99?"???
First, let me elucidate one thing upfront--THAT range is NOT an age of "BABIES!" I hope you realize as much.
Second, of course I care about human beings of ALL ages, I am NOT crazy.

And third, to return to your rather-insane assertion that some persons are NOT worthy of being born --that they must EARN it, well, what can one say? That's TOO funny for words!! First it breeds the question of HOW does one know BEFORE the life has been lived anyhow? You think someone knows WHO is great in the womb?
And that's not even valid to go there FIRST. Because philosophically, that's invalid premise anyhow!

DO let me pose this question to YOU...given your insane stance, do YOU feel you were worthy of life?
DO YOU????
What merit have you contributed & WHO is arbitrator to judge what constitutes "worthy" and "UNworthy"?
Cuz I dunno, I gotta say...given what you've revealed, sounds questionable (that is, hypothetically, IF I were OF YOUR STANCE..naturally I am NOT. The simple fact is YOU have as much right to this place on earth, the air we breathe & ALL its resources as me & every other person here).

And on ONE last note--or I HOPE I am near concluding here, who knows-- I honestly DO hope you find your way out of poverty.
And not just to be philanthropic but because it's the charitable & right wish for every decent human being.
I am very middle class (maybe slightly upper) and give a heck of a lot to charity due to being fortunate enough to do so but more importantly--at least to me it is--I give hours of my time DAILY volunteering. At least 2 to 3 hrs. five days a week. Have for over 20 years, it's simply part of my life at this point.
Which let me tell you, to give of yourself & your time, your mental acuity & heart & all your attributes you can muster, is FAR more difficult than writing a check (even if also FAR more rewarding) and I often conduct my charity work beside others who haven't a pot to piss in but also surrender their time. You know what? Theirs is as valuable as mine (I'd say maybe MORE but that's impossible...we all are giving!)
So think of doing that maybe, I promise you this, this simple act/decision often leads to greater things. In one way or another. Brings a peace you may never experience otherwise & sense of purpose beyond ANY amount of money (and trust that I made plenty in my chosen field. Yes, granted, it's nice to have money, it alleviates many problems/worries/concerns but I can assure anyone NOT having been overly successful/fortunate in that realm, it does NOT bring happiness or sense of contentment. It's a saying for a reason.
That comes Only from ppl & Our relationships--that is where REAL meaning lies. Money is ONLY a means to an end, that is all).
Plus it's true, the adage that when one GIVES, one receives back tenfold. Not being the objective (give for the sake of giving!) still you get far more in return. Dunno why that is, just how it shakes out; it's immeasurable really, there are sincerely NO words that suffice for how much value derives from helping someone else out (often suffering).
But you know, I would imagine you would laugh at this as those I MOST help in need are NOT even persons you believe deserve to be living. I can't help but wonder WHAT the heck you mean in writing "will be SOMEBODY"????
How can you not realize we are ALL somebody?
You must truly subscribe to the belief many lives are FAR more valuable than another's. Very untrue. And unfortunate, mistaken--not to mention, DANGEROUS-- system of beliefs.
I know I am not more or less important than any other living person. We were all created equal (just check our constitution sometime). then again, I've known this simple basic fact since the time I was a mere child. Maybe just raised well & the credit goes to my parents & family (and possibly school)....dunno.
I truly hope you get help, all kidding aside. Much of what you assert gives me chills (when I stop laughing which I suppose I should NEVER do).

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9 months hell?Oh , poor them going through 9 months of hell if that means giving life to someone! yeah, TOO MUCH OF STRESS! 9 MONTHS OF HELL! what a super effort! Jesus. What a egoistic person you must be.

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"I don't see where I, or anyone else, claimed to speak for the world." - You

"I & the world feel sorry for you." - You

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"I don't see where I, or anyone else, claimed to speak for the world." - You

"I & the world feel sorry for you." - You


It's almost like she says so many stupid things that she can't remember them all.

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In the US they are about 0.02%... then again what are the odds that someone will win the lottery? Way lower than the odds of death from pregnancy yet millions of people buy lottery tickets which indicates they believe their is some chance of winning when the odds are 0.0000003%... So reality is anyone that buys a lottery ticket should logically be worried about death from childbirth when the odds are so much greater of that happening than of them winning the lottery.

You also assume that if the kid grow up it will have a good life. It is also possible the child would be adopted by some fucked up family that raped the baby until it was dead. Not a high probability but it is a possibility just watch the news, sick fuckers exist. So frankly killing the fetus might be a more humane end for the fetus than growing up and being used, abused and discarded like trash.

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You can die giving birth. Your business gets stretched. You have to choose between giving up your baby to adoption(which means the kid could get damaged by his new parents/parents' habitat) or being slave to your child for the rest of your days. Your kid could end up murdering someone. If you get a c section, scars. If you're religious, you go to hell. If you're not religious and it turns out Christianity is real, you go to hell. Did you not notice that she thought all of these things the minute she got told she was pregnant? If not, I feel sorry for you.
Have you heard of birth control and/or abstinence??? The fact that you take this so non-seriously is creepy.

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so non-seriously?! i'm 30 and i don't have kids yet. that's how serious i take it. sex isn't just for procreating, if you didn't know.

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why shouldn't this movie be made when it actually happens in real life? why should we only depict one side of a story just because it's uncomfortable to some people? to some people this doesn't feel like a big deal. to some people, an embryo the size of a sesame seed isn't a baby, or a life. it doesn't mean it's easy. it just isn't the biggest thing that has ever happened to them.

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abortions are painfull, no matter what. Eeven if you abort a very little embryo
Trying to make it not such a big deal it's just ...beyond wrong.

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"Would be like burning down a house cause you don't like the microwave color."

Comparing that to abortion has to be one of the most idiotic things I've ever heard. Congratulations!

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it is. It's an exaggeration. It's a ridicolous way to deal with a situation as an adult. think about it. You'll see that abort just cause it s "difficult" or "you're not ready" it's more rhan immature. it means that having a baby is really something you can't bare. which brings to the qutsion: then why didn't you take much more preventions? if it s really something you don't want, i mean

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Yes, I imagine most things would seem ridiculous if you if you have to exaggerate to the point of ridiculousness to get your "point" across.

then why didn't you take much more preventions?


How do you know that some people (who got abortions) didn't "take much more preventions"? (poorly worded on your part). I know women who were on the pill that got pregnant. I know people who have used condoms and gotten a girl pregnant. I'd say those were people trying to prevent it.

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was this the case? NO. So why are you even making those examples?

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So only this abortion was wrong? You're fine with the ones where people did at least try to use preventive measures?

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UHm No.

I'm saying that if she was one so afraid to get pregnant she shouldn t thave had sex like that. easy as that.

Im not against abortion per se. Im against aborting after you didn t do nothing to prevent pregnancy, like nothing.

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So you are fine with the people I mentioned above (the people you said were irrelevant to this conversation) getting an abortion?

Which was what I was asking even though you insisted it had nothing to do with the discussion, which is weird b/c you shouldn't really be telling me what is relevant to the discussion when I am asking a question just to make sure you are consistent with your views.

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My point is completely different: My point is to do a comedy about abort IS tacky
It's irrelevant if i agree with abortion or not

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This isn't a comedy about an abortion. This is a story of a comedian that gets an abortion. Huge difference. (it's actually listed here on IMDB as a comedy/drama (aka a dramady).

Also, your stance about abortion is not irrelevant when we are discussing abortion. Otherwise why did you even bring up your stance in the first place?

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"Would be like burning down a house cause you don't like the microwave color."

Comparing that to abortion has to be one of the most idiotic things I've ever heard. Congratulations!
Why? Are you saying a house is more important than a human life?

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The OP's attempt at comparison was as ridiculous as it was irrelevant. It's hard to have an adult conversation about this topic with someone that is going to make such a ridiculous comparison. Just shows where their head is at.

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An abortion happens in the movie. But the movie is not about abortion. It's amazing how many viewers get so hung up on that.

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You couldnt make this shit up and you dont have to.

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