Jerkish things he did and said


Okay, first of all, I'm not blaming him for his own death. Nobody should be murdered, and I'm happy that Jodi is going to be locked away for the rest of her life so that she can't hurt anybody anymore.

That being said, if this movie is accurate, thd guy was a dick:

- 'Some day I'll marry a mormon'. What an awful, awkward and weird thing to say to someone you've been seeing for the past 3 or so months. Especially since later it is indicated that they didn't have 'the talk' yet - so he's just throwing that out there casually, that he already knows he's not marrying her.
- 'Three hole wonder' - do I need to elaborate on this?
- 'Slut, whore' - slutshaming is luckily not PC today, because of how sexist and hypocritical it is.
- When he made a move on that other girl he was seeing and then when she said she didn't want to have sex, it was the 'right answer'. So he's basically testing if she's a good little virgin or a 'slut' that he can use and then throw away.


What a dick.



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I agree. While she is definitely where she should be, and he certainly didn't deserve to die... he wasn't a good person.

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angebaybee I agree. While she is definitely where she should be, and he certainly didn't deserve to die... he wasn't a good person.


Ha! and you are?!!


Travis Alexander 5/26 g chat


"Tell me the truth: I hate you. Say it. I want the truth just once and then tell me why you hate me and desire to destroy my life. Why did you manipulate me into loving you? I was a good guy. Why did you have to do it to me? ...What was your objective? What was the point?...Even now you only talk but your actions show that you hate me."


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He was far from good , he gave so many mixed signals to a woman who was obviously besotted with him in an obsessive way. He should have made a clean break instead of sending her texts saying he was gonna stick it in her ass etc etc
I found it hard to be sympathetic towards him , yea it's sad he lost his life in such a brutal way but the way people are making him out to be a saint well he wasn't , he was human , made errors and thought it was ok to use people




I was waiting for my hearse what came next was so much worse

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>>> He was far from good , he gave so many mixed signals to a woman who was obviously besotted with him in an obsessive way. He should have made a clean break instead of sending her texts saying he was gonna stick it in her ass etc etc
I found it hard to be sympathetic towards him , yea it's sad he lost his life in such a brutal way but the way people are making him out to be a saint well he wasn't , he was human , made errors and thought it was ok to use people

This.

Jodi deserved the death penalty, make no mistake.

But the more I learn about Travis, the less I like him. At least when it comes to women.

(He definitely had many great qualities in other areas of his life.)

As I listened to the testimony of his ex-gf Lisa, I found myself increasingly thinking: what a scumbag.

1. A girl converts to your religion weeks after meeting you. Hello? That means she wants to marry you. There is no other way to interpret that. At that point, the only decent thing was to either take her seriously or break it off. No middle ground. But Travis wanted sex and didn't care how he got it.

2. At 29, he kept on pressuring Lisa, a 19-year-old, into getting very sexual. She told him repeatedly that she was uncomfortable about it. He ignored her.

3. He played a whole bunch of mind-games with Lisa. Won't get into the details. if you're interested, watch the video. Nothing earth-shattering, but just scummy behavior.

4. His best, best friends warn him, weeks after meeting Jodi: that girl is a psycho. Stay away from her. And so many strong warnings like that from good friends, for 1.5 years. And he completely ignored them all.

5. She slashed his tires twice and Lisa's tires once 6 months before his death. He had to have known it was she. And he continues to see her. Are you effen kidding me? I'm sure that 999,999 out of a million guys would draw the line when a woman slashes his tires and get the hell out of there. Plus, he finds stuff missing all the time, and he knows she's broken into his facebook, gmail, etc. And keeps on coming back for more?!

6. Hours before he died he has sex with her -- after a major argument just days before, in which he said horrible, horrible things to her and told her in no uncertain terms that he wants her out of his life forever? Are you effen kidding me?

Conclusion:

Jodi Arias is a psychopathic murderer and deserved death. But she had plenty of relationships before she met Travis, and from all accounts, never engaged in any such psycho behavior. It took a user of women like him to set her on her destiny.

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Email Travis sent to Jodi, when she decided to premeditate his murder -

05/26/08 0759 Outgoing I sent you a response to your dire conversation that I hope you read because you need to read it. Maybe it will spark human emotion in you, something that only seems to exist when it comes to your own problems. But everyone else is just a part of your sick agenda. By the way, your pic comment to Danny Jones makes you look like a pure whore, even more to the people who know you. You should be embarrassed by it. If he knew what I knew about you he'd spit in ur face. So would everyone else. I have never never in my life been hurt so bad by someone. But why do I even say it because you don't care. It doesn't serve your evilness.

05/26/08 0835 Outgoing You couldn't get off your lazy butt to to read it could you. That's the sociopath I know so well. It freakin figures.

05/26/08 0911 Outgoing I don't want your apology I want you to understand how evil I think you are. You are the worst thing that ever happened to me.

05/26/08 0914 Outgoing You are a sociopath. You only cry for yourself. You have never cared bout me and you have betrayed me worse than any example I could conjour you are sick and you have scamed me.




BTW, pay no attention to the movie. Investigate further and you will find the truth, Travis was an ordinary guy, not evil nor bad, just ordinary.

He let a narcissistic, psycho biatch into his life, and he paid for it dearly. This could happen to you or anybody, so please think before throwing aside a perfectly normal person who was just making a life for himself after the disruptive and dysfunctional childhood he had.

Poor Travis. :-(

Jodi doesn't deserve the death penalty where she will still garner the attention she craves, she deserves to rot in jail for a very long time. JUSTICE HAS BEEN SERVED!

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'Poor Travis' went into slut-shaming in the first message he sent her. Not an indicator of a good person.

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I'd like to hear your definition of a 'good person' because your example is piss poor.
If I'm dealing with a psycho, I'm going to call them every name under the sun, no holds barred, that's all they understand.
You've obviously got no comprehension of the human condition, so sweet words to you means a 'good person'. Ted Bundy and the like, would be all over your ass. Very foolish thinking, but the world is probably black and white to you.

EDIT: You think the Grinch is a pedo? Now I know what I'm dealing with, bye.

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Thank you for taking the time to go through my post history. And no, I love the grinch, the movie was just absurd and kind of creepy to me.

I am actually very much a predeterministic nihilist, meaning that I don't believe in absolute morals or free will. Because of this I can actually finf it in my heart to feel compassion for people who do such evil deeds. I don't wish anything bad to happen to them, only for them to be locked up for life so that they can't hurt anyone else. Doesn't it suck that their role in life is that of a murderer? When a person commits such a terrible crime we basically deal with two losses: the victim, and the murderer. I feel compassion for Travis too. He was murdered, nobody deserves that. But would he be my friend? No, probably not. He has proven time and again to be sexist, a player and a religious hypocrite. Not my type of person.

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@Ser_Pounce

Oh come on---the guy wasn't perfect, but those e-mails prove that he knew this woman was pretty fckd up and crazy---his big mistake was in not cutting her the hell off,period, when he realized she was nothing but a damn psychopath. He didn't deserve to die just because he didn't want to be with her anymore, and her psycho a** went ballistic on him. I never understood why the media kept fawning over this chick anyway,saying she was so pretty and all that---it was disgusting, especially since she's a convicted murderer.


I am actually very much a predeterministic nihilist, meaning that I don't believe in absolute morals or free will.

Well, what do you believe in,then? That sounds insane to me. So what you're saying is, is that you're a psycho too,which is pretty messed up.

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Travis was absolutely a victim. He is in no way to blame for his death. However, those emails are telling. He knows she is crazy and horrible, but he decides to bring her into his house again? His bed again? Was the pootang that intoxcating?

At a point we have to say, if people know someone is bad for them, they need to protect themselves and be rid of that person permanently. It is so unfair Travis had to die because of that monster, but I hope it will serve as a message for those in such toxic on-again-off-again relationships to cut ties for good.

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Anyone who works in, or even attends a "self motivation" class is a massive dufus before they even open their mouths.

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he did have a hand in his demise.

he kept on putting his dick into her!

and what is this Mormons can't have anything that is considered addicting? premarital sex is cool???


and what about the bedroom cover set he had ---HE'S GAY!!!



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The movie scripted dialog out of thin air, we have no idea what they said to each other except for some saved texts and recordings, which aren't necessarily reflective of all the things they said to each other. I think him being a jerk was usually caused by her being a manipulative sociopath to begin with. An emotionally mature person would have seen their relationship for what it was. But a psycho always wants more...

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The sad thing is she did not have a cooling off period after she read that text. He just didn't think she would kill him , he thought very , very little of her.

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