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Anyone else bothered by Hannah slapping the $hit outa her adult children

posted 8 years ago by starduss_ala
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We've seen her slap Candace, next week she slaps her golden boy Benny. It's just odd to watch. We haven't even seen that bitch Veronica slap Jeffery and Veronica is the devil. So to see this christian woman hitting her adult children with no remorse just makes me feel some type of way. There really isn't a term dedicated to what Hannah has done to them. If they were children, we'd obviously say child abuse. But since they're grown I guess it's just abuse??? Or is it still considered child abuse because even though they're adults, they are her children???

I know a lot of you will say that Candace deserves it or whatever, but I genuinely feel that Benny does not. Yes Benny has been making the worst mistakes and is just letting Candace drag him down deeper and deeper but he loves his sister more than anything. His biggest flaw besides being a bimbo, is that he loves Candace. Unconditionally. And I hate that Hannah condemns him for that. He can't help it. I'm sure if he could just say "Fnck you Candace. I'm done!!!!", he would in a heartbeat. But unlike Hannah, he cant. It's almost like Hannah feels threatened or jealous or something. Can you imagine their childhood??? Him always caught in the middle. God.

Anyway. Idk. Hannah's a bitch. Candace is a hopeless waste who'll never learn. But Benny, he's just a bimbo who got stuck with those two for a family. I wish Hannah would give him a break.

[–] cleosdaughter 8 years ago

You're so generous! I'm sorry, but Hannah has tried to help both of her kids; she is remorseful for what happened to Candace, and she admits she was hella wrong for it! But Candace is using that like a weapon over her head! She's grown now, and it can't be taken back, so get some therapy about it, or let it go and be a better woman! Benny is a spoiled, immature man-child! He's spent so much time under Hannah's bosom he doesn't know how to be a man! He's gullible and stupid; if he can't see through Candace now, he never will! He can still love her but put her on blast for her sh-t and refuse to get caught up in it! She's older than he is, so let her take her lumps like a grown woman!! When she gets tired of being a deceitful heifer, always in trouble, she'll stop! Maybe when War gets ahold of her, that'll be her wakeup call! Both Benny & Candace are rude and disrespectful!

[–] Born_Tomorrow 8 years ago

Nope. The both of them need it, especially Benny. Candace was probably always a lost cause because she has the devil in her and the average person can't beat the devil out of anyone. She needs an exorcism.

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[–] ctact 8 years ago

She should be slapping those two idiots kids of hers more often as they are both useless!

[–] starduss_ala 8 years ago

Didn't she say she was done??? I remember her washing her hands of both of them.

[–] Tatmanlulu_BACK 8 years ago

She should be slapping those two idiots kids of hers more often as they are both useless!

I know and Benny's been mouthing off at Hanna all out of control as of late about Candace when Hanna was the person to be warning him about her to begin with so she probably got fed up with all the unwarranted hissy fits over things she warned him about repeatedly, had it up to here and finally slapped the taste out of his mouth!!!

[–] ctact 8 years ago

Benny is just an idiot!! Maybe Hannah will visit his dumb@ss in prison when he goes to jail for just burying Quincy's body while Candice is out trying to pull another con.

[–] Bballdiva23 8 years ago

To an extent I am because it is doing absolutely nothing. Benny was just trying to stand by Candice but all have to admit that was an exceedingly stupid mistake so I understand Hannah for being pissed. When we're pissed we react to it and that's what Hannah decided to do to express her anger. Slapping Candice hasn't helped to change her and slapping Benny won't fix the issue. This is realistic as to how parents react though so I get were she is coming from I just wish she would channel her anger into helping or just let her foolish kids fix their own mess on their own. Benny is obviously going to run to Candice every time she needs help and Candice is continuing to con people and if they continue to do these things they will ruin their lives. What else can Hannah do except try to support them and tell them when their wrong at this point?

[–] leegary1982 8 years ago

Ask me...Im someone who got hit with all kinds of things. I don't play that hitting adult bs! That's why Hannah got slapped back last season for hitting Candace. Candace held back because that was her mom. Two adults should not be hitting another. If you can't talk it out like an adult and have to use violence then you have a problem.

[–] starduss_ala 8 years ago

Ask me...Im someone who got hit with all kinds of things. I don't play that hitting adult bs! That's why Hannah got slapped back last season for hitting Candace. Candace held back because that was her mom. Two adults should not be hitting another. If you can't talk it out like an adult and have to use violence then you have a problem.

I like your answer best. Although it's horrible and I wish it didn't happen, hitting a child I at least get. A child would be scared and hurt after getting hit. The message for them is, do things their parents don't like and they will get their ass beat. So more than likely they'll behave. But after like 14, they're more adult than they are child and that beating $hit won't work. So Hannah hitting her kids at all maxe me mad. But hitting adult kids is just, idk.
Side note: I saw a documentary once on girls who were raped by their father in their adulthood. Sooo trippy and fncked up. It was child abuse but the girls were in their 20s when it happened the first time and fncked them up for life.

[–] Bballdiva23 8 years ago

Exactly. I don't blame Hannah for being angry but she always responses with that and it get's her nowhere. Hannah keeps doing it as if she thinks that will make them change and it does nothing.

[–] RidiculousPasta 8 years ago

She should just pull Benny's pants down and put him over her knee. A slap is not enough.

[–] Tatmanlulu_BACK 8 years ago

She should just pull Benny's pants down and put him over her knee. A slap is not enough.

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