What I found so interesting was that the movie really had no judgement on anyone. It was just a glimpse into the moment of crisis in someone's life.
Yes, Locke was a likable guy. Everyone says this is unlike him, so he is a steady, reliable fellow. He screwed up big time. He desires to 'make it right'. Here is the problem with Locke's perspective, in my mind: I'm not sure I actually heard him apologize to his wife, or his sons. He says he made a mistake and it was just one time, but he is not crying, he is not even outright asking for forgiveness. He states the facts and insists that there is a way to 'fix it'. Like concrete. Except people aren't like concrete, and you can't always turn those lemons into lemonade. He sounded almost clinical talking to his wife, and so I felt like he was either disconnected emotionally from the impact of his actions, or he was in shock about what was happening and so essentially functioning on autopilot.
He is clearly emotionally damaged, whether that be as a result of his upbringing or whatever else. He handles his intimate relations(except for maybe his kids, we saw some cracks in his control when he was talking to them) like he does the concrete. I think he is aware of how much he has ruined, and right now he is just in 'try to make the best of it" mode. I think he will show emotion and regret later...even though he is comparing himself favorably to his father, I think there is actually a undercurrent of self-loathing in all that. I'm not sure he believes it. When Stefan says that Locke is the best man in England, Locke stays dead silent and has a very pained expression on his face. He knows what a complete dog he has been. And I think that means that there is hope for them to work things out.
So yes, I like him. I hope he comes crawling back to his wife and that she eventually forgives him. I hope they see the problems in their relationship that led to this situation, and take steps to strengthen the relationship so that it never happens again. The wife reacted badly(understandably) and maybe said some things that she will regret later and desire to take back(the "don't come back" thing). Locke has obviously screwed up huge. And he knows it. But he doesn't really know how to sincerely ask for forgiveness.
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