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Will Traynor and the right to die


First of all, just want to say that I really enjoyed this movie. It was better than I anticipated and definitely had me reaching for the Kleenex (and I'm a mid 20s dude). I'm even keen to read the book it's based on now. One of the things I didn't always like was the choice of music at times - I thought it somehow cheapened various scenes or moments to suit a young female audience.

Upon reflecting a bit further on the movie, I began to have conflicted thoughts about the character of Will. I am pro-euthanasia, but he seemed to be learning to love life and another person again thanks to Lou? I couldn't help but feel that this was a man born into immense wealth and privilege, who had never known struggle in his life. The moment he faced 'struggle' for the first time in his life - he quits. All too hard for him.

I'll never judge anyone for the choices they make in life, but I couldn't help but feel a little differently when thinking of his immensely privileged position in life and his choice to then die. I couldn't help but wonder about those significantly less fortunate than him (but in the same quadriplegic condition), and how their perspective on life may differ to that of Will's - due to their differing pre-disabled lives.

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I hear you, but I don't agree.
That's actually one of the reasons why I root so much for Will's character: people watching the film and thinking that a rich, handsome and loved man should not give up, that somehow he even has no "right" to give up, since others may be less "fortunate" than him.
Yes he can give up, he has the right to give up just like anyone else in his position ( IMO of course, since I' m pro freedom of choice and euthanasia ). What good is money if you are in pain, unhappy and with only the prospect of getting worse in life? He was unhappy, he could not bear it, he tried for two and half years but could not accept such a poor quality of life.
It's personal.
There are people out there who are not as rich as him and don't choose his path. Why? Because they have personal reasons not to: maybe some believe in God and find strength in faith, maybe some have families and young children to live for, maybe some value "quantity" above "quality" in life....maybe some are just "stronger" than Trayon's character .
I never judge those who are not "strong enough ", I feel for them.

"Please, if you are trying to convert me, this isn't a good time"

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