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For those who said 'She Could Do MUCH Better'...


as in, Josie Davis being "hot" and that she could do better than Danny: with all due respect, your logic couldn't be more off (I'm guessing that perhaps most of you are on the young/er side??):

Women (and men for that matter, albeit perhaps for many different reasons), who sleep with children, generally do not do so, based on their looks, nor, is it really about sex: it's about power and seeking 'love' from those who are unlikely to reject you - at least at first. And I say "children," because while the age of consent might technically be 17 in most states, the age difference itself is reason enough to cause concern. Furthermore (and actually way more disturbing than a teenager having sex with juat any 40 yr old), is when there is a major power differential between even two consenting adults (eg doctor/patient, boss/employee). Doctors have had their licenses suspended or even revoked, if they engage in a sexual relationship with his/her patients. It's his/her responsibilty as the person in authority to not abuse that power, even if the patient, student, etc. were to do a striptease on his desk. So in a way, it's perhaps more egregious when this happens to a teenager - EVEN one who is already 18.

Women like “Molly” (Josie Davis’ character) seek out specific sexual partners for dozens of reasons other than his/her physical attractiveness. They need (and/or want) unconditional love (something we see in flashbacks that Molly never got from her abusive mother) and that’s easier to get with a child or teenager, ESP if you’re in a power position over him/her (so in this case, who knows why she targeted Danny – perhaps something about his ‘essence’ reminded her of her mother, whose love she had always sought). And I'm sure she probably was attracted to him, perse' (it's slightly better for a teacher to have sex with a 12th grader than a middle-schooler!!), but if it hadn't been Danny, it would've been another boy.

So my main point is that Molly was looking for that unconditional love she never received as child (not to mention that she seemed psychotic), so obviously, she’s incapable of having a healthy relationship with an age-appropiate man (though by Danny breaking up with her, we did see that developmentally, he was quite healthy and probably ahead of many of his other male peers). So when you say she can do “better” than Danny, she’s the one who can't have a healthy relationship with an age-appropriate man - so it's more like HE could do better, you know?? She's absolutely pathetic and SICK so while she might be able to pick up a handsome and successful man in a bar, she is incapable of having a relationship with such a man - that is, if he’s mentally healthy.

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Call me crazy, but I can find some sympathy for Molly, due to the way that she's been treated most of her life. She never got any unconditional love from her mother as a child, or from anyone else.

Maybe if that haven't happened to her, then things would've turned out to be far more different. I'm not condoning her for what she's done, it's just my thoughts about the entire thing.

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Molly never had a life as a teenager so picture somebody who never had dates at 15-20 years old and is mentally not well. As she got older she yearned to have a younger guy as she never had that when she was that age. But 18 is of legal age so it's up to the 18 year old to say "wait, something is very *beep* up here, this lady is 35 and I'm 18? what the *beep*?" no, he goes for her because she's pretty and then turns around and calls her a freak after he *beep* s her several times, come now!

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You mean like Michael Jackson? South Park covered that pretty well. How long are people going to keep blaming their horrible childhood/teenage years for how screwed up they are in life? Go see a shrink and move on with your life. It was her fault and there is no need to feel sympathy for any perverts.







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Molly never had a life as a teenager so picture somebody who never had dates at 15-20 years old and is mentally not well. As she got older she yearned to have a younger guy as she never had that when she was that age. But 18 is of legal age so it's up to the 18 year old to say "wait, something is very *beep* up here, this lady is 35 and I'm 18? what the *beep*?" no, he goes for her because she's pretty and then turns around and calls her a freak after he *beep* s her several times, come now!


Indeed, I agree with you that Molly was stunted developmentally, so actually, you're further proving my original point re how sick she (Molly) is (therefore, she's hardly 'too good' for Danny, or any other stable guy for that matter. However, just because when one turns 18 and is of majority age, doesn't mean that all of the sudden a boy (or girl, for that matter) suddenly becomes an "adult" overnight (only in a literal sense, like in a courtroom - but not for actions that took place when he/she was 17). So it's really not 'up to him' to tell her to go away, even though in this case, Danny was, indeed, mature for his age and realized very soon, esp. considering the power differential that I mentioned in my OP.

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Call me crazy, but I can find some sympathy for Molly, due to the way that she's been treated most of her life. She never got any unconditional love from her mother as a child, or from anyone else.

Maybe if that haven't happened to her, then things would've turned out to be far more different. I'm not condoning her for what she's done, it's just my thoughts about the entire thing.


Goodman12,
I wouldn't call you crazy at all!! I, too, would have empathy for this woman (I'm also trained in that way, as a psychotherapist). But that has nothing to do with the general point I was making re: posters here, saying that she 'could do much better' than Danny. The woman is mentally unstable and while a teenage boy might get his 'kicks' from a few rolls in the hay, if he's a healthy, normal kid, the initial infatuation with (and attraction towards) her will wear off in a relatively short period of time, as HE'S not going to want someone as SICK as she...(now, if it were a boy in middle school, which we hear about all of the time in the news, he might be more damaged by such a 'relationship,' because it might be difficult for him to get out of it on his own.

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Actually yes she could've.

-What's more dangerous than sincere ignorance?-

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Actually yes she could've


If by that you mean whether she could walk into a bar and pick up some hot, rich, successful guy, I'm sure she could. But any normal, stable and halfway intelligent guy would realize how sick she were, after just a date or two.



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