Honestly, I like the Josh and Maya thing. Is it inappropriate? Mildly. But it's also a fictional TV show. I don't have the same opinions or concercens when it comes to fictional stories as I do when it comes to real life. All I know is that I think the actors are fun to watch together. I'm more interested in them then any other romance that has been floated around on GMW yet. Even though I like the show, this is one of those times I wish GMW wasn't on Disney channel. Because if it wasn't than the writers could definitely explore this relationship more.
I like them too. I like how the writers and actors have done a good job with Josh and Maya's interactions, and also showing that no matter how much Josh objects because of the 3 year age difference that he still likes Maya.I also think there is at least some foreshadowing of their further together. What with them both playing the long game and all.
Now that's not to say they won't date other people before then. After all Maya never called Josh her boyfriend when asked about it she said someday.
I LOVE them! Not only are they cute and the actors have fantastic chemistry. But it is a realistic situation. And really not that inappropriate because they pretty much just like each other. The raciest thing they have done is hold hands for a conversation.
I could just be biased because Uriah who plays Josh is hot.
Also when I was a teen a had a major crush/lust/feelings for my best friends older brother. Who was ironically 3 years older lol. And I too found out once I turned 16 that he had the same feelings for me. So this whole storyline kind of makes me nostalgic for that.
While Maya and Lucas certainly would make an attractive couple - Sabrina is a far better actress than whoever plays Lucas...so there are no on-screen sparks between the two of them. Whereas Maya and Josh are played by TWO capable actors - so they have a great / believable / worth rooting for kind of rapport. It takes two to tango...Maya can't carry all of her relationships.
OK, so you're probably going, "Is this like a Noxzema commercial or what?"
Unfortunately Maya/Josh is a totally inappropriate relationship which should never have been taken seriously at all or even spoken about and absolutely should not have been rooted for at all. The good news is that at last it probably met its richly deserved end in "...meets tacos".
really not that inappropriate because they pretty much just like each other.
Whether they like each or not has absolutely no relevance at all to "inappropriate" - He is a college Freshman, she is a High School freshman - that fact alone,makes a relationship between the two totally inappropriate for at least 5 years and in reality for a minimum of 8 years. He's graduating from college and entering the real world in four years. In four years, she's a freshman in college - entering her final playpen. I n short, they are still in two completely different worlds - do you think she'll give up the playpen and instead socialize in the real world ? Do you think she'll even be able to do that ? Asking the same question about right now - do you think he'll give up the playpen and instead socialize in the high school world ? Do you think she'd be able to socialize in the collegiate world ? The answer to all 4 questions is a resounding no. That relationship is inappropriate from the start.
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There isn't one thing that makes a relationship work or not. It's up to the people involved. All of this is irrelevant anyways. We know what's happening and arguing it to death is ridiculous. Especially considering they're two fictional characters. Narrow mindedness just drives me nuts!
When he's 21, she's 18 - a college freshman- he's 24 and going out into the real world to support himself. That's a vast difference - two completely different worlds, not to mention the fact that she's entering her last playpen. Legal it would be, but it's every bit as much, if not more, than high/school college. He's 23, she's 19 - he's been in the real world 2 years, she's still in college - possible, but still two different worlds. Not s Disney show by any stretch of the imagination, but possibly Freeform or major network..
Unless she chooses not to go to College and goes out to get a job to support her art while she's establishing herself in the art scene. Every bit the same world as Josh.
No she didn't just turn 16, she just turned 15. She's a freshman in high school, he's a freshman in high school, legal or not it won't be appropriate at all for more than 4 years, when she enters college. And when she enters college, legal though it may be, they'll both still be starting two entirely different worlds and it's ll still be inappropriate - if you want appropriate, you"ll have to wait 8 years - she'll be entering the real world and he'll have been there four years - She'll be 21 and he'll be 24. They will, then, finally be in the same world. Until then - it's a doomed long distance relationship. They're doing it absolutely correctly. They'll both be out there - waiting..
He's in college and he's 18. Their ages aren't really relevant except for legality . They will never be in college together - she'll be graduating high school at the same time he's graduating from college. Any relationship between the two of them is totally inappropriate - until she is a freshman in college and even then it would still be a long distance relationship since he's graduated and entered the real world. In short - there's no real future for them - unless they're both still single when she graduates college and each is ready for a relationship with the other.
Whether they like each or not has absolutely no relevance at all to "inappropriate" - He is a college Freshman, she is a High School freshman - that fact alone,makes a relationship between the two totally inappropriate for at least 5 years and in reality for a minimum of 8 years. He's graduating from college and entering the real world in four years. In four years, she's a freshman in college - entering her final playpen. I n short, they are still in two completely different worlds - do you think she'll give up the playpen and instead socialize in the real world ? Do you think she'll even be able to do that ? Asking the same question about right now - do you think he'll give up the playpen and instead socialize in the high school world ? Do you think she'd be able to socialize in the collegiate world ? The answer to all 4 questions is a resounding no. That relationship is inappropriate from the start.
The real life age of Sabrina and Uriah means absolutely NOTHING about Maya and Josh. The character Josh is a freshman in college - that means he's 18; Maya is a freshman in High School - she's 14. That is all that matters. There is a significant age difference between the characters whether he is 17 or 18 and she is 14. As previously stated - the fact that he is a college freshman and she is a high school freshman makes their dating totally inappropriate - and it will remain a major difference between the two until she graduates from college. When she's a freshman entering college, she's a young lady entering her last playpen (Josh is entering his last playpen right now - think he's going to be able ignore all of those women and all of those parties ?)- he's a college graduate going out into the real world. That's two entirely different worlds. That's two completely different stages of life. if they want to date then - they can - but why ? They live in two completely different worlds.
No, it won't be laughable - it'd be legal, but it would be ridiculous - she's a freshman in college (her first year in her last playpen, so to speak) and he's out in the real world - they couldn't be further apart. Once she's out in the real world,too - it'd be a different thing altogether.
She's not going to be old enough for more than four years - and when she's a freshman in college, he's graduated - it'll be legal then, but they'll still be in different worlds and unfit for each other.
Freshman in college and a freshman in high school ? A MAJOR difference in age.
Grade levels have nothing to do with the age difference - The major difference is COLLEGE freshman and HIGH SCHOOL Freshman - Totally inappropriate - I have to ask you - does logic mean anything to you ? A good father would threaten Josh with real physical harm if he ever spoke to his daughter again (Shawn will not only be a good father, he'll feel a strong need to make an immediate good example of Josh - and Maya will love it - she finally has a father.. In four years - legal, yes - but still two different worlds. In the reality of the story line - not a chance.
Unique doesn't change the fact at all - Josh and Mayas College Freshman and High school Freshman - any relationship between them is completely and absolutely inappropriate and will remain so until she's in college. In two weeks Maya will have a father - I'll bet that he makes that clear to Josh - if it's necessary.
This different stages in life thing really bothers you.
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Dandanger really wants Maya and Farkle together so he/she has to grasp at whatever straws he/she can to invalidate the feels that Maya has for anyone else.
I think in the end they will end up together. Three years is not a big age gap at all. Yes, it probably seems more when she is 14-15 and he is 17-18 but when she's 19-20 and he's 22-23 it's going to seem what it truly is just three years.
I think in the end they will end up together. Three years is not a big age gap at all. Yes, it probably seems more when she is 14-15 and he is 17-18 but when she's 19-20 and he's 22-23 it's going to seem what it truly is just three years.
Not in the real world. He's a college freshman, she's a high school freshman - he's entering his last totally unsupervised playpen - she's entering supervised adolescence. totally inappropriate. when she's 19-20 - she's in college in her final and unsupervised playpen - he's out in the real world making his way - legal - yes- but still totally different worlds each with little or no room for the other.
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when she's 19-20 - she's in college in her final and unsupervised playpen - he's out in the real world making his way - legal - yes- but still totally different worlds each with little or no room for the other.
I honestly don't see the big deal when she's 20. and He's like 23. I literally just graduated from undergrad with a bachelors and I know so many college kids who dated someone or ended up with someone who was a junior/senior/or recent college graduate when they were freshman/sophomores. My friend is literally 20 right now and her boyfriend is 24 and graduated college like 2 years before her. They just had mutual college friends or town friends so they connected.
Yeah in high school, it seems weird when she is a freshman in and he is freshman in college, i can totally get why that is a problem. Once she is a bit older, i do not see the big deal.
Didn't you F her BF when you two were BFFs?
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I really don't get it either. It's inappropriate between high school and college, yes, but when either they're both in college (if Josh stays a 5th year) or Maya's in college and Josh is a recent grad, it's not a big deal.
Speaking from experience, I dated a 5th year senior as a freshman in college, which would hypothetically be the grade (and not age, which annoys me about this situation) difference between Maya and Josh. That ended because he acted superior for being older, and I let him because I was inexperienced, and he ultimately cheated. Definitely an avoidable situation.
I also started dating my husband when I was a junior and he was a 5th year senior. While I finished up college, he was 1000 miles away at his first job and we were in different "life stages". Obviously worked out since we're married!
I'm also keeping in mind that Maya seems pretty mature for her age so this could work for her. Watching these shows and reflecting on my teens, Maya's a lot less naĂŻve.
3 years (sometimes 2) is drastically difference in age difference when you're still in your teens compared to your 20s and all the way up. Like who cares that a 70 year old is married to a 74 year old?
So yes, it would be messed up if he started dating her NOW - but if he waited til she was older it's no big deal.
I dated many older guys throughout my life. The skeeviest, as I look back, was when I began dating a 19 year old as a 16 year old. However, that particular relationship lasted 6 years...so I suppose I am biased because that would be considered a successful relationship. We ended up breaking up for good because of opposite life-goals. He wanted marriage, kids and to move to a larger city. I was a firm no on kids, didn't want to leave the area and am pretty meh on marriage. So those are normal grown-up reasons for breaking up that have nothing to do with our age. He's now married with children living across the state. I'm still not married with no kids in the same area. These were things that obviously rendered us incompatible. But I certainly don't regret the 6 years I was with him.
OK, so you're probably going, "Is this like a Noxzema commercial or what?"
Yeah but honestly I feel like in some parts of Europe it's very normal. I lived in Europe as a teen and most 14 year old girls had a bf who was at least 16. I don't know what the big drama is, although 18 is getting a little old to be dating a 14 year old.
They aren't even dating. Maya doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't want a nice guy, yikes. She doesn't know what she likes. She hasn't figured herself out yet. I think that Josh behaved inappropriately because he was a chaperon, but they aren't dating and it isn't going to go anywhere. I wouldn't worry about it yet. The kid isn't going to be a main on the show. That isn't going to happen.
Maya doesn't believe nice guys exist, or if they do exist, they're few and far between. One reason she poured a smoothie on Lucas' head is because she, wrongly, perceived his niceness as hypocrisy, a false face.
But there's another reason.
I've had several girlfriends break up with me because they couldn't stand the tension of waiting for an explosion that never comes. Pouring a smoothie on Lucas' head, and all of the taunts are an attempt to draw out the monster she fears is within.
I don't think it is unreasonable for Maya's character to not believe nice guys exist. It is possible that that is where the show is going with her character. Though, i hope not. Though that would tie in with Maya's reaction in Girl Meets I Do, with how she felt Shawn was going to back out on the relationship with her mother. Who know at this point.
I don't think Maya likes Lucas. I certainly don't think Lucas has ever liked her. He has always like Riley. Though, what was his thing in the yearbook? Most likely to go along with whatever happens? That's not what it was, but it was something like that. It was pretty much like no matter what Lucas will be fine.