The Social Justice Dates It.
Watched it again the other day and the scene where Rey TWICE tells Finn not to hold her hand really felt clunky and crow-barred in. For the sake of modern audiences, it might be a great moment of feminism and equality but in the context of the film, why would she take such offence at him trying to help her? Either the societies they live in are equal (and no-one is a feminist) in which case her taking offence makes no sense. Or they have the same inequalities in their societies regarding gender that we do but if that's the case then why is Finn not aware of this? Why is he trying to help what he believes is a vulnerable woman?
Anyway, that scene really stood out, felt totally contrived and pulled me out of the movie.
Had they truly wanted to make a feminist point (without massively dating the movie) then they should have simply made Rey grab Finn's hand. Job done.
When people watch this film in 30 years' time, they'll wonder why it had such a forced scene.