I agree. In fact when they tell you your conversation is private it may not be. Side note: Our HR lady was cheating on her husband. The whole building knew except poor him and their infant son.
We all went to her about a problem boss. She says in front of said boss (later in the office), "Didn't you all come to me earlier saying you had a problem with Mr Doe?" She totally ratted us out and made our lives miserable.
So later I said something along the lines of: Well, My boyfriend cheated on me which is horrendous. cowardice, and completely scummy. so compared to that this is nothing. I can deal with Mr Doe a little longer until I find a more reputable job.
I enjoyed letting her know what a piece of crap she was and I hope she got what I was saying. But she may have been to dense to get it.
EDIT: I want to add that in other companies I worked at I did not face that same issue. I think it was just her. BUT I will never confide in anyone again. I will also never care that much. I would just leave.
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