emails from Roger
Fair warning if you've seen this story before (probably not), but anyway: I wrote Roger one time after seeing Turtles Can Fly, re his review of the film. I figured I'd get a "thanks, I'll pass it on" reply from a staffer, at most. Probably not even that. It wasn't two hours before I got a reply directly from Roger himself. I still can't believe it. We exchanged a couple more along the way after that. He was engaging, funny, and as smart as the best of his writing, as smart as some of you biggest fans know him to be. Not for one second did he take the position of a superior talking to an inferior, although that was a plain fact, at least with regard to the industry. (I had done a stint as a film student and was a writer who had published a few reviews, but...please.)
I mean, that's not the only time I've gotten something back from somebody who would've been nearly impossible to contact in an earlier (pre e-comm) age. It happens sometimes. But to get one from a true giant in the business -- and most likely at a time when he was struggling through the worst of his cancer surgery and treatment -- I just thought the fact that he answered at all, let alone would engage in a conversation, plus the actual substance of the things he wrote, seemed to indicate a real mensch. Or at least somebody who was really in love with film and inclined to like other people who were, too. Which is why I miss him like crazy, and why it's still weird without him. I expect it always will be.