Happy to agree to disagree, and I'll say why, like you did. That's only fair. My reply was reported by some brown shirt even though none of its content - reproduced here - was a personal attack. It's a frank criticism of your opinion, a totally different thing.
Nobody's obliged to respect an opinion just because it's an opinion. There's an obligation to respect the right to express one, but that's not the issue here. A right is universal, quality is not. And opinions aren't always equally valid in terms of quality. That's natural, and you yourself accept and live with this fact every day.
An opinion based on very incomplete evidence shouldn't carry as much weight as one based on the full picture, because it's bound to be inaccurate.
Since you watched just 20 mins. of a feature length doc, yours isn't an informed position, so it's only reasonable to be skeptical of your judgments. Same principle applies to any subject and any opinion based on scant knowledge of it.
Another quality issue is that your basic criterion was misguided because the purpose and value of personal docs is their idiosyncrasy. They are not intended to be "journalistic" or "balanced." They're about communicating the filmmakers' experiences and attitudes toward their subjects. In this case the subject was the influence on Polley's family, and in particular on Polley herself, of a mystery at its core, related to her mother.
It isn't necessarily "narcissistic" to limit the perspective to family only, if that's the subject. Moreover, Polley hardly limited her perspective, which you'd know if you'd watched past 20 mins. She offered multiple perspectives from various family members, and in fact one of the key aspects of the story was how contradictory those perspectives were.
Rather than "narcissistic," Polley was noticeably rigorous in not sparing herself. She frequently mocked herself, and rather courageously included several personally unflattering scenes. One reason why people have found the film affecting is because it concentrates on profound questions of identity. While the subject was specific, the story had a universal quality.
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