I don't think he's gay. There are a lot of men who are comfortable with their guy friends in that sort of flirty way that the Toms are... they seem just more feminine but still straight. It's possible he's bi, or has experimented, but in general he seems pretty straight to me. His hang up with Katie seems more likely because he isn't super happy with Katie and in general doesn't believe in marriage as a concept/institution. I think he has even said that before. Katie doesn't seem super into him either though. It seems to me that they've been together for a long time and both are each other's comfort blankets... they know they can take care of each other (Tom seems immature and his relationship with Katie might be like a maternal/mother-son type dynamic) and this is what binds them, despite not actually being super happy 24/7. Just my thoughts!
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