Moral of the story
Don't allow yourself to be friendzoned by a slut
shareI have to agree. During the last few minutes, I lost all sympathy for Kate. She's a mess.
No need for a "happy ending" but they could have come up with a better way to end this movie.
Wait, how was Kate a slut or a mess? She was the only one who never lied or went well beyond flirting, and is starting fresh without big mistakes to deal with. For me the morals of the story are "Don't give in to a moment's temptation, don't let others make you feel bad about yourself when you've done nothing wrong, and don't let others drag you down to their level". I aspire to be more like her.
shareNever lied? What were you watching?
She told everyone that she broke up with Chris when it was the other way around.
She agreed to have dinner with Luke after he called out of work to help her move the entire day with a nasty cut on his hand. Then ditched because she wanted to have a drink with the guys.
I thought she came off as a immature character in this film, who never seems to grow up. She's someone who can be a good friend but would make a terrible girl friend.
Let's not forget the nice beach scene where she strips and begs Luke to go skinny dipping with her. That's kinda slutty. I don't care what anyone says.
shareLol. Slut shaming. Sluts are great, you guys are prudes. Kate isn't a slut, she was on the rebound. He wasn't friend-zoned, she didn't want to be a homewrecker, thus the reference to his girlfriend. She's actually the opposite of a slut. You guys need to date more.
share<emphatic pointing> THIS. THANK YOU.
I think the OP could benefit from reading this:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/hnigatu/13-reasons-why-nice-guys-are-the-worst#.gpMbawW8d
and this:
http://imgur.com/gallery/RmAjE
and for good measure, this too:
http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Nice_Guy_syndrome
"Friend-zone" needs to just go away, as a concept. It's a crush. Your affections are not returned, so you're crushed about it. She or he doesn't owe you a thing simply because you're attracted to him/her.
And if Kate's a slut, then Dave surely is too.
Yes, I agree, ludicrous stereotyping by sexually frustrated, socially isolated men. It's an obvious sign when they can't maturely discuss a film about relationships featuring 'real' women, not cardboard cut-outs.
The one thing I found unrealistic, which kind of brought down the whole movie for me, is that it took so long for them to recognize how great they were together. They had phenomenal chemistry, way more than Luke and his girlfriend had. And once they did, that she did not tell him about her feelings for him - and that he didn't either.
I think if he hadn't cut his hand and they had gone out for dinner that night, the issue would have come to the surface and they would confessed their feelings. And maybe even hooked up - the comment "I'll hit the shower" or whatever had clear sexual undertones.
I think the director was showing us how major life directions can turn on even minor events. Like the other guy says earlier in the film that there was somebody who was great for him 15 years earlier, but he couldn't see it. The weird thing is, that is *exactly* what happened with me! Had one of us taken action, things between us would very likely have taken a much different route.
The film kind of saves itself for me by leaving things open-ended - maybe they will get together after all.
To the OP: I halfway agree.
I dont think she was a slut, other than wanting rebound sex, but she definitely friend-zoned and took advantage of Luke's generosity (and probably all the other guy coworkers). You can still friend-zone all your male friends and not be a slut, which is what she seemed to do.
As Kate put it in the movie, she is single and Luke has a girlfriend at home. Luke should have expected to not receive Kate's undivided attention, because for all anyone knows, she was the one taking the moral high ground - but she should have just been honest and direct rather than friend-zoning him.
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Luke realized that it was better to be friends with Kate than to screw up what he had with Jill. Was the ending really that hard for you to understand?
Also, the entire concept of the "friendzone" is something that only idiotic, emotionally underdeveloped children like yourself believe in. Which do you think is worse: having a girl as a friend or having someone in your life that feels sex is owed to them? People that subscribe to toxic ideas of masculinity (like you do) will naturally have a hard time understanding this movie.