Honesty


People are not honest to make a good impression. People are so accustomed to that that they (unconsciously) avoid honest people. That is true for both men and women.

Men are rewarded for making a good impression by not telling the truth. Women go for the man that makes a good impression, even if it is not the truth.

This movie shows what a woman gets when she goes for a man that looks good. She does not understand how to properly compare an honest man with a dishonest one. Women think they want an honest man but they don't understand how to appreciate an honest man.

For example, an honest man would express desire for other women. He might not act on that desire but he would express the feelings when he had it. Most women would run from that like the plague. An honest man would want to share his feelings with a woman. Women that prevent a man form expressing those feelings force a man to be dishonest. Women that understand those feelings are very likely to have a wonderful partner and that partnership could easily be enough to cause a man to not indulge the desires.

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Lol yes, a man having constant attraction and desire and fantasies about other women in a supposedly healthy relationship makes sense. Maybe if you're a sex addict. Or teenager. And also a man being constantly honest about his constant desires and his girlfriend /wife being super chill about it would make him more likely to not cheat because he gets to freely express it all the time!? Very wise. Lol. that sounds like a very healthy relationship. Maybe the wife should also start freely saying all the time what other men she finds sexy, and how bigger d**** than her husbands d*** turns her on. They can both just constantly tell eaxh other their desires for other people. Then neither of them will cheat. Really dude? How many relationships/healthy relationships have you been in? I'm guessing little to none. There doesn't have to be lying but if ur in a healthy relationship neither one would be desiring other people all the time. They'd have passing attractions but that would be it. There shouldn't have to be anything to discuss so freely. That's for therapy and if ur in therapy because the man (or woman) is constantly attracted to or desiring others, both red flags the relationship is done.

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