Great potential - some brilliance - but ultimately badly flawed SPOILERS
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It might seem odd to go into so much as I'm about to over this kind of film, but I agree with one of the public reviewers in saying that I can only have patience for this amount of ugliness if there is a reason for it and it makes sense. The kinds of flaws and mistakes the film contains push it perilously close to being pointless - but at the same time the brilliance it contains is impossible to just throw away.
IMO the BIGGEST FLAW in the WHOLE story as it's presented is the mother rape scene. In a strangely (brilliantly) sensitive presentation that this whole film otherwise is, that part is overly obscene and clumsy - especially in the context of the way the rest of the film unfolds. It may be MEANT to be that way - MEANT to be an assault on the viewer's sensibilities out of all proportion to anything else in the story - but IMO the way it's done is actually at best out of balance with the rest of the presentation and at worst is just plain wrong - as in poorly/clumsily done and doesn't even make sense. Don't get me wrong, especially in a grusome gothic style plot and story I didn't actually find it excessive or extreme or overly personally confronting as such - especially in context - but I simply found it awfully JARRING - a feeling that only grew stronger as time went on and I watched more of the rest of the story. At the very least it should have had the father slam the door shut on the camera so we come to understand what's going on via what we then hear - not thru the clear (tho not explicit) images we are actually shown. That sort of imagery is otherwise absent thruout the rest of the film - especially with regard to sexual content - the mismatch is a big mistake just on that basis alone - even ignoring the flawed meaning.
That scene ultimately fails outright tho because it explains and shows a deep SHAME but doesn't explain why there's anger and hatred of "all the whores". I think maybe the sons AND the father (drunk father) should have arrived home together to find mother in bed with another man - then what follows could be a credible trigger for Bob's hatred - ie. by being forced into that shameful act by his father BECAUSE of his mothers behaviour.
Whilst undoubtedly being absolutely brilliant in parts - ie. leaving us afraid of Bob and revolted by what he does but not necessarily hating him - and drawing us into the incredible relationship between Rabbit and Angie just to name a couple - this film in other places is every bit as awful and flawed as the best parts are brilliant. The last part in particular seems oddly rushed and messy - perhaps because it's been edited / cut down? (the lack of resolution with Angie's situation may be intended deliberately as a device but to me it just came across as incomplete and clumsy). Keep in mind the boy's character IS consistently shown as NOT being anything like Bob or being likely to go that way...- so to imply that via the sound under credits at the end - if that's what that was supposed to mean - is just humbuggery and annoying. As other people have said, I'm also looking forward to a "Directors' Cut" or "uncut" version.