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Why didn't she just delete it?


Why didn't she just delete the bad status as soon as she saw it up on her profile at the beginning? She was just crying about it.

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I completely agree. Why didn't she just delete the page if it was causing her so many problems. A cyber bully can't exist without some kind of internet interaction

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Exactly, her whole problem could have been solved/avoided if she would have just deleted the whole thing, but she was being stubborn.

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It's one of the few things that didn't make sense to me. She started crying and getting all upset because people had already seen it. But I don't get why she still couldn't do what her friends said to and delete it and post that she was hacked. People may not have believed her, but at least the status wouldn't be there anymore.

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That would have been far too easy. Sometimes, teenagers (and people in general) don't realize how many simple solutions there are to their problems. If I were her mom, I would have forbidden her to have computer access indefinitely. She clearly wasn't mature or responsible enough to handle it.

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"If I were her mom, I would have forbidden her to have computer access indefinitely."

please don't ever have kids

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Would deleting it fix the real problem? It would keep spiraling out of control. *beep*, can't you just understand that? It just toxifies this young population and infects everybody coming into contact with it. Young teens have no idea about it, no understanding nor real knowledge about it. Do you blame a baby for not driving a car? No, you teach it to ride a bike at some age and then drive a car at 16-18. There's a time to learn it. People are by very nature curious, and if they don't understand something that's such a big part of their life (and a computer has very positive effects on everyone, just not that part) then they will just keep going deeper and deeper to understand it until it's tangling you. Like anyone at a mature age who gets passionate about something, because kids are easier at indulging themselves into something than us adults. Kids just haven't had enough experiences to build upon yet. A lot of things left and right are new, hell even people in their 20's still haven't seen most of it yet. Do not pretend like it's such an easy thing because you're carrying it out of context.

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What an easy thing to say without explaining yourself.

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You're way off the topic here. Yeah, kids are dumb, people are dumb. But if you get upset over a comment that's on your very own page, how utterly idiotic you have to be to not just delete it and move on? And there are like no websites where you can't block people, so she should just have done that. And blocking is not something kids don't know about, they do it just for the sake of it like there's no tomorrow.

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People can just write new things. It doesn't fix the problem at all. I would've thought that was obvious. Deal with a problem at the source. Otherwise, how about I come visit you every day just to bully you for a minute, and see how well you can ignore and get over it. Let's see how annoying it gets if a few dozen people started doing it to you. Just because it's online and you can block people doesn't mean it's any less *beep*

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I agree, OP but think about it: most people her age would over react to that extend, too. Like what her mother said in the film, the internet became part of their life, their world. They just can't simply log out of it.

It was really dumb to begin with. I've seen worse cyberbullying done in TV shows - granted they were legal and crime procedural shows - but they were certainly much more alarming than what's happening here.

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i thought the same thing. I think that's the problem with people. They don't just delete their accounts. She seemed addicted to it, desperately wanting to know what everyone thought about her and what they were saying about her. It's some sort of self centeredness that we have as people. This desire to hear what's being said about us even if it hurts.

I hope you like feminist rants because that's kind of my thing.

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I agree that there were some things she could have done to prevent that whole mess, but I do not think it would stop her from being bullied anyway. Even if all those girls could not bully her online they would definetly make up for it at school, hell they could have created a fake taylor profile & just trashed it up and make her life miserble! There is always more than one way to bully someone and destroy their self esteem.

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There is always more than one way to bully someone and destroy their self esteem.


Especially when the person already has confidence issues, like what was apparently meant to go on with Taylor (Emily talked about it in an interview)...which, if I may digress, was the real thing I wanted to see in the movie. We didn't (or at least I didn't) and, as a consequence, the movie was sort of Movie of the Week-ish, with a few standout moments. I think if there had been a little bit of explanation paid to T's self-confidence, it would be easier to see why she didn't delete it. We really needed to *see* why getting her own computer was such a big deal for her...or at least make a bigger deal out of the opening scene where she's on the laptop in the kitchen.

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i think if she deleted her profile the problem would have ended and there would be no movie and the movie is about bullying on the internet

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If she would have deleted it... people would still be talking about it on their own pages. theyd go to school the next day and say, "hey did you hear? she (insert rumor here)" and would be waiting for her to come to school just to tease her some more.. just as they did when she walked into the bathroom at school. It happens all the time. My sister deleted her old account and people were still talking about her on their pages, calling her, texting her, leaving her messages, and then would come to our house to cause more trouble.

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Haha well... it depends. The bullies might still have kept bullying her in many different ways. Even if Taylor deletes her profile it doesn't stop other people from posting things about her. And they're in the same school afterall. So she'd still have to face them. PLUS, they can still make the video about her and everything and post it around the internet, like they did.

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It's actually easier said than done. Some people, especially at Taylor's age, may react like she did to the statuses in the movie immediately after they see them. But deleting the posts is kinda a tougher thing to do as, despite how painful it may be, some people may still become extremely curious about what people are saying about them, or they would feel the need to know. So they'd just keep checking the posts. I think that might be how Taylor felt. She needed to know what people were saying about her, though it was best she didn't. :P Deleting the post won't necessarily work either because it won't stop the cyber bullies from posting more.

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