@briscut: sorry to disagree with you, but from experience, leaving home, particularly as the owner who is responsible for one's own property, really is an incredible & drawn out, pain in the A++. Throw in a 'M', and those who desire to move quickly, suddenly find that things do, indeed, get a whole lot more complex.
In other words, *unless*, you are (or become) fabulously wealthy, you might one day appreciate that it is nothing but hassle and stress to leave a house one both owns, and lives in, for another - and I'm talking about one that *isn't* further complicated by a haunting (which, I might add, must be legally disclosed, at the pre-contract stage, in some states).
Indeed, throw in a haunting on top, plus (... & it *is* incredibly convenient, of course, that you don't want to hear about them, but they are a fact of ordinary life, which, very much, tie most people to their respective dwellings) ....yes, ...a mortgage, and you might - perhaps some distant day from now - get a sense of all the very real BS, which is involved in doing so. BTW, your credit record, and/or how financial institutions perceive your handling of same, is of incredibly real importance to most people in this western world. Need I say then, that it doesn't look too good, if you've borrowed the largest sum in your life to live in a property which you'd like to walk out of, a little later, and then there's the little matter of that very large debt - BUT NO - DON'T Worry at all, because the large, faceless financial institution, which reports regularly to totally understanding credit agencies, also totally understands every single one of their very few clients who want to leave haunted properties quickly...
Hmmm.
Hmmmmmm!
Alternatively, you could try and convince yourself, as many do, that it's all in the mind, and just seek to get on with life, which is a very human thing to do when faced with the apparently irrational and unscientifically proven problem which a haunting tends to be. Until, you the afflicted parties just can't stand it any more. Then, and not before, it's finally time, after trying to live with it for so long, to move on.
Nonetheless, it is very much a matter of established fact, with all other things being equal (i.e., reasonably steady income/health etc.), that many (if not most of us) are still, and at some point in their lives, left to face, plus overcome, the three most potentially stressful situations, in life:
Dealing with a divorce.
Dealing with the death of a close relation/loved one.
Moving home.
"Darling I've just had a long day at work, why are you looking so stressed?"
"A nasty ghost has just turned our paintings upside down, and scared the kids so much that it took them longer to sleep this evening."
"Darling, I've really just had a long day at work!!! Can we please deal with this some other time? I need to sleep, please!"
or
"That sounds dreadful, ok, forget about the mortgage, the business I have to run, the fact that this will destroy our once excellent credit record, *and* the fact that we've nowhere else to move to right now, nor any additional funds to pay for it - we'll just put the house straight back on the market tomorrow."
The latter might be *your* solution, but it is argued that most people do a lot, an awful lot, of the former typical conversation/above reasoning (+ more), for very good reason, *before* anything else, is even considered. Put all of the above together, and people do not move quickly from haunted houses.
-
Sandwiched between The Principle of Mediocrity & Rare Earth Theory, you should see The Fermi Paradox
reply
share