Is america still a country of stuck up prudes??? I found them pretty likeable and realistic of course I don't agree with all their actions in the film such as committing crimes but as far as getting a pad to have some fun? Why not I would do the same only difference is I have no desire to get married and do the whole cheating thing I admit I never want any commitments. Anywho this was a enjoyable film that sadly fell victim to the typical cliches of this genre. I guess to cater to the prudes.
Vince is a dirtbag with no kind of loyalty to any of his friends. Luke is a creepy weirdo. Marty is crude and makes foul remarks to his friend's wife and about his friend's sister. Philip is a rapist woman beating loon.
Nothing wrong with having a sense of morals and values. Oh and not supporting infidelity and irresponsibility, doesn't make you a prude, it makes you decent. And if you can't figure out why people would be turned off by cheating, woman-beating weirdos who have nothing better to do than blow money on hookers and a cheesy apartment, then it says more about you than us.
There is something wrong at least imo with having uptight morals and values. Everyone has got their own moral code they live by but to many ppl are so uptight with their beliefs and even worse they wanna force their beliefs on others.
Other than woman beating and backstabbing I fail to see what is wrong with these guys lifestyles. I think it has a lot to do with our prudish culture that wants to continue to shame something fun and natural and fun as sex/nudity. Heck our culture is more supportive of violence over sex/nudity which is crazy to me.
That's the difference... You don't commit to anyone, they did.
When you commit to someone you are saying the person she can trust you, to betray that trust is just wrong. So if you are just not ready to commit to someone and just want to have affairs, then do it. You are free to, you are not misleading anybody. Nobody cares about your sex life actually. I congratulate you for at least having the guts to assume what you want and pursue it instead of telling yourself and others lies.