I don't get "the twist"
First of all, I didn't realize that the son being the killer was a twist, before I read it here. I did wonder why the grave was such a dramatic setting though.
But I had it guessed early from how the movie portrayed the scenes with journalists covering Sam, mixed with other small details like Josh's depression song scene in his dorm, or whatever that was.
It was the subtle details in the way the movie was structured I guess.
I thought it was oddly covered all along though, especially because of how numb (and even slightly playful) Josh seemed when he decided to go through with it, rather than go celebrate with his dad.
So that brings me to the title of this topic. I don't get the reactions to his son being a killer. Why is there so much blame and hatred towards people related to a school-shooter? It seems so unmotivated to me. Is it a cultural thing or something?
I especially thought Kate's reactions were very extreme and odd. I know she went through some harassment because she was Josh' girlfriend, and seemingly didn't have enough support in her life that she could be protected from that. But her feeling of justice from telling the band seemed portrayed as if it should be obviously relatable (because all characters immediately agreed that this wrong), while to me it was very unusual. It wasn't a shock for me either, since I thought it was inevitable that it'd be a conflict in need of a resolution from the moment Sam started lying about the source of his music.
But why would it be so extreme for the band to hear? Perhaps I get the song-thing a bit, since the source of the songs are often personal to musicians, but Quentin had no seeming relationship with shootings or killings, so I didn't get why he was the one who got so emotional about it, while the others quickly calmed down about it.
And why is it really so wrong to play sincere and deep songs from someone who's been judged as a criminal? Is it wrong in the US to do anything else than demonize a killer?
I hope any of you guys can help me out here.
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Other than that, I thought the topic was interesting, and the music was good. But I felt like it could have covered the life around being a parent to such a thing better. It was apparently the twist, so I guess that'd be hard, but then again, to me it wasn't really a twist, so I can't seem to relate too much to being attached to there being a twist.