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Completely annoyed with Daphne.


I've watched the whole series so far and recently started rewatching season 1, and all I can say is I am so sick of Daphne. She makes everything about "poor me, my life is awful and it's everyone's fault."

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In all fairness... she really got screwed over in life. She was supposed to grow up as a rich girl. But instead she grew up in the hood and lost her hearing. She has the right to complain, lol.

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I agree with you partially. Although she lost out on lots of things she would have been born in to, she also received other great things she might never have experienced. The hearing loss was bad and had only happened because of the switch but at some point people need to get over the wrong that might have been done to them and move forward.

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But she's actually not as pissed off as a person would be in real life. She's being very calm. The deaf storyline aside... I grew up poor too, so I would have killed somebody if I found out that I was supposed to live in a household that could afford the cereals that I see in the commercials.

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I mean, I understand where you're coming from, as I grew up poor myself. But I think throwing a temper tantrum about being switched just because you didn't grow up as rich as you should've is a little simplistic and immature. I would be frustrated, yes, but ultimately growing up poor taught me a lot about hard work, responsibility, gratefulness and being humble. Whenever I've watched this show I've always liked Daphne more than Bay-she has a good head on her shoulders most of the time and isn't spoiled. If I were her I would be grateful because finding your rich parents who want to pay for your college education is a blessing in itself. Yes, you got cheated, but it's a bit much to assume that you would trade the people in your life just to be rich. Idk.

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I get that she's mad at the world about the switch, so is Bay. But the way Daphne acts it is about everything she does AFTER the switch stuff. She makes a mistake, there's consequenses, but it's not her fault, and if no one saves her then the world is over. It's all about Daphne and if it isn't, she makes it about her. I'm surprised her and Bay became close at all honestly.

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Daphne didn't bother me so much in the first part of season 1, but she got wildly annoying after that. It's like once the world wasn't going her way, she decided to become a total brat about it.

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I agree. I always found her annoying. Not over the fact that she was upset about growing up where she did but just her in general. But I think she gets a lot better in the last two seasons.

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