I'm mostly refering to a girl making a move WHEN she doesn't even know for sure about what that guy thinks about her.
And I don't know what was in that letter, but it looked REALLY long.
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I really think the guy should make the first move, not the girl. In this movie, Anna was the one who asked Jacob out and even suggested they get married. Maybe I'm "old fashioned", but I believe it's better that a guy "chases" the girl and be the pursuer than the pursued.
shareIt doesn't matter who makes the first move. Yeah personally I would never chase a man and have never made a first move, but there's nothing wrong with a girl/woman to do so. If you feel okay doing that then it's ok.
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honestly i agree.
when people say there is "nothing wrong" with a girl making the first move, ok it may be not wrong, but it's just not romantic at all. Something about it that just takes away the magic.
A guy persuing a girl is the "classical way" in my opinion. Which makes it romantic.
Paul Avery: Someone should write a *beep* book, that's for sure.
Nervous and shy guys really appreciate when a girl (that they're into) makes the first move. I've seen adorable scenarios where the girl makes an adorable first move. It can be just as cute and romantic as when the guy does it, especially if they're both sort of shy about things.
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I agree. I was extremely shy when I was in high school, and I found out 40 years later that some of the girls I was too shy to ask out would have gone out with me. The same is true with showing affection. I would have appreciated girls' making the first move -- but I recommend not doing anything suddenly and unexpectedly, especially if he has ADHD. Sudden actions can throw him temporarily off balance, so to speak, and he may freeze.
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sharea girl making the first move [...] it's just not romantic at all.
Something about it that just takes away the magic.
A guy persuing a girl is the "classical way" in my opinion.
Which makes it romantic.
I really think the guy should make the first move, not the girl. [...]
I believe it's better that a guy "chases" the girl and be the pursuer than the pursued.
I don't think that it is that wrong. I mean, look at this beautiful movie that came of it:)
shareI think it's cute like in this case where it's nothing promiscuous
shareGuys say they like it, and maybe they think they do. But I think, deep down on some sub-conscious level, it makes them uncomfortable. I recently had a long talk with a bunch of female friends about this (I myself also being female) and all off us, a diverse group of ladies, had very similar experiences where 9 times out of 10 when we had asked the guy out or made the first move, even if the date was fantastic and we had tons of stuff in common with the guy and the coversation was good and the attraction was there, things often didn't progress very far if at all. Guys don't generally seem flattered when a girl asks them out, more taken aback I would say. And they say yes and go on the date and as much as they may otherwise like the girl I think they feel (again on some sub-conscious level) like they've been emasculated in a way. Not all guys are like this, but enough of them are that I feel comfortable in my assessment that, while I think there's nothing wrong with a girl making the first move, guys generally prefer to do the chasing at the end of the day and they don't seem to appreciate the tables being turned.
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I think shy guys like me appreciate it, whereas confident, extroverted ones do not like it.
shareHoly hell, are you writing this from 1952? Did you find a time machine?!
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For one reason or another, asking someone out is seen as a male duty. When the female is doing the asking she might be seen as aggressive or someone that doesn't have many options (it is wrongly assumed that women have tons of men asking them out). However, when the girl's done the asking doesn't necessarily mean that any possibility of a relationship is doomed. It also highly depends on the context and the guy's interest.
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