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And that, kids, is why you shouldn't...


...violate your student visa.

The whole movie is just a cautionary tale, really, for stupid kids who ignore real-life rules because they're oh-so-in-love. I'm so annoyed at the main characters for their foolishness - and I don't just mean the visa thing, of course. If they hadn't ignored the rules, she would have gone back after two months and their relationship would have developed naturally - it might or might not have worked out. Instead, what they got was a romanticised/idolised version of their first few months together which grew and grew in their heads in the way that unsatisfied desires do, without any basis on reality. They ended up hurting the people around them and each other and there's absolutely no guarantee that what they got was a happy ending, they might as well find out they hate each other after a few months. Stupid stupid kids!

Btw, RIP Anton Yelchin. When I heard of his death I remembered that this movie kept coming up on my Netflix suggestions, which is why I watched it today. He was a fine actor and his death is a tragic loss. I hope he will be forever remembered.

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Agreed. But then there would be no movie ;)

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Completely agree

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I thought so at first but then I changed my mind. The visa violation is too simple to be a plot trick, I think it's there to show us that we are shaped by our mistakes. Not to mention it all being different, maybe they wouldn't get back together at all. I mean, they've been together for around a year, once infatuation fades away it's hard to see what's real and what's not. Those extra couple of months and determination to be together against the rules is what makes their love so lasting after all.

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