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Robyn is a master manipulator

posted 9 years ago by PrettyInPink236
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Robyn somehow gets everything she wants, I know it isn't all her doing but she manages to get it anyways.

-She got her hobby business to be the family focus and now there is my sister wives closet even though 3/4 wives were not that interested in it.

-She gets pissed when Meri wanted to go back to school and guess what? Meri got too busy to go back to school because of sister wives closet.

-She manages to get married legally to Kody and adopt her children in to the family, meanwhile completely alienating them from their father. Yes this is partially Meri's doing but you know Robyn had to have been saying things like "I wish we could get those kids adopted and if we don't and I die we lose them"

-She invites Meri to her new "wedding" despite saying it is only paperwork but she has to be able to see how emotionally difficult this is for Meri, she is just rubbing salt in her wound.

-Kody and Robyn refuse to divorce later on and have him remarry Meri even though that seems like the fair and right thing to do and if it is only paperwork then why not? Legally she should be in charge if Kody dies, she is afterall the first wife and been with him the longest.

-She gets extra time and attention from Kody by having babies, Kody has stated he stays more nights at Robyn's especially when Sol was young because he did not sleep through the night.

-She has another baby after stating she has too much work to do to have a baby (despite having a nanny and several older children caring for the young kids all the time) she did this to regrab Kody's attention.

-She manipulates the children's father so much that he gives them up for adoption yet they still love him, he loves them and didn't want to give them up and suddenly right away they are allowed to go stay with him for 3 weeks? I thought this man was the most vile person on earth yet right when she gets what she wants he is ok to spend weeks with.

-Robyn gets pregnant with a girl and suddenly it is urgent for Kody to spend time with his other girls? I think they knew it was going to be a girl and Robyn pushed him to spend more time with her girls so they don't feel left out. This is the only good thing on this list Robyn has done.

I know a lot of this is also because of Kody, he gets half the blame but what are some other ways you think Robyn manipulated people in to getting what she wanted?

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[–] cinles 9 years ago

Most of what you wrote was done for the show.

Kody and Robyn refuse to divorce later on and have him remarry Meri even though that seems like the fair and right thing to do and if it is only paperwork then why not? Legally she should be in charge if Kody dies, she is after all the first wife and been with him the longest.

No one is 'in charge'. They all have wills. As they said on the show, what would be the reason to remarry Meri? Plus the state of Nevada might see that as a fraud just to get the kids. My Sister Wives Closet was a good idea - it appears they're not even working but I bet they're getting the profits. Kody probably spends more time with her, but the sister wives knew Robyn was going to have kids and that would happen. The only thing you said that has weight is that Robyn is a parent alienator.

[–] PrettyInPink236 9 years ago

I disagree. I don't believe that this is all just a set up for ratings, some of it yes but most of it is the true Robyn.

Yes someone does decide what happens to Kody, they talked about it in the divorce episode. Robyn said she will have to be the one who decides what happens when Kody dies now, they discussed it.

My sister wives closet was not a good idea for 3/4 wives but they still did it for Robyn.

All of what I said stands and makes a lot of sense, you can try to brush it off but it won't make it untrue.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

Yes someone does decide what happens to Kody, they talked about it in the divorce episode. Robyn said she will have to be the one who decides what happens when Kody dies now, they discussed it.

Watch it again. They were joking. They all have wills. No one is 'in charge'.

My sister wives closet was not a good idea for 3/4 wives but they still did it for Robyn.

Now they all make money from MSWC and do nothing, so sounds like a win-win to me.

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[–] cinles 9 years ago

This is a perfect example of hyperbole done for the show. Robyn is not in charge just like Meri wasn't in charge. They probably had wills before the show. But they are millionaires now. Kody is a douche, but he is a smart guy as is Janelle. Prince may not have had a will but the Browns do.

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[–] cinles 9 years ago

They may have wills but she is right if something happened to Kody then she would make the final decision. While I know some things are done for the show I do think Robyn is the favorite and now she is the favorite with all of the power.

If you're referring to Kody's health, he probably has a living will for that. Do you think for one minute any of the sister wives would allow one sister wife to have the power over Kody's health? Robyn has power alright, but not the kind you're talking about.

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[–] cinles 9 years ago

You are correct in everything you have said if Kody did not have a will stating how to disperse his financial holdings or how to take care of his health, but they have a will. Actually, all we know is that Kody owns half of Robyn's house. The Browns formed a company before the show and I think all of their income goes to that company. Their finances have to be fairly complex. That's another thing - I don't think Janelle handles their finances without some help. As smart as she is, their finances have to be pretty daunting.

[–] Silver_Bullets 9 years ago

Legally if Kody was in an accident and was on life support she could be the one to choose if he lives or dies, unless he specifies that specifically in his will and a lot of people do not. Legally she would be the one to make the choice.

You're right . People don't usually make choices like life support in a will. A will is usually read after a death. Life support decisions are usually specified in an Advanced Health Care Directive. Just because Kody has a Will doesn't mean he has a AHCD.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

I'm not sure if we have evidence of this, but we have talked about this before. However, a millionaire polygamist husband with 4 wives would have to be a fool not to have his finances and health care directives in order. Knowing these 4 women as we know them, I think they would insist upon it. Kody is a douche, but he's not stupid and even if 3 of the wives wouldn't think of this (I doubt that too), Janelle would.

[–] Silver_Bullets 9 years ago

However, a millionaire polygamist husband with 4 wives would have to be a fool not to have his finances and health care directives in order.

Yeah, but this is the Kodster were talking about here. Kody probably thinks he's IMMORTAL !!! 👿 💩

[–] cinles 9 years ago

He has 4 wives and they all have a great interest in their children's future. If you don't think all 4 wives didn't bring this up, well... Let's just say they didn't have a will before Kody married Robyn - do you think after that Meri wasn't going to protect Mariah's future or Christine wasn't going to weigh in about what would happen to her brood if Kody kicked it. Nah, they all have wills. This is what the wives looked like when they thought Robyn controlled everything.  Janelle  Christine  Meri

[–] Silver_Bullets 9 years ago

... Let's just say they didn't have a will before Kody married Robyn - do you think after that Meri wasn't going to protect Mariah's future or Christine wasn't going to weigh in about what would happen to her brood if Kody kicked it. Nah, they all have wills.

I thought we agreed they all have Wills. It was the Advanced Health Care Directive that was in question. ❓❓❓

Like I said Kody has such an ego he most likely thinks he will live forever.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

Stop it! You know if they have a will, they have that too. Remember also, Kody's dad died with 2 wives, so, of course, Kody has made provisions for that. Meri wants some say so in pulling the plug. 

[–] Lovetvshows 9 years ago

"Meri wants some say so in pulling the plug."

I think that is Meri's dream to pull Kody's plug.

[–] Silver_Bullets 9 years ago

Stop it! You know if they have a will, they have that too.

No actually I don't know that. I know several people who have a Will but no AHCD. And yes they could be considered wealthy.

[–] jmorafates 9 years ago

Correct. In fact, you cannot put that in your will. A will does not take effect until after you die. If you are still alive, the following three documents may be used: Healthcare Proxy, Living will, and a Power of Attorney.

The Healthcare Proxy designates an individual in charge of making medical decisions if your doctor has determined you are incapacitated and unable to make such decisions. You can only designate one person. You can however, designate a backup in the event the first named individual is unavailable or refuses the responsibility. Thus, only one of the wives can be designated as the primary healthcare proxy and a second wife can become backup.

The Living Will gives the healthcare proxy instructions. For instance, it can direct whether nutrition should be withheld or pain medications that hasten death may be given.

The Power of Attorney allows you to delegate one or more persons to make financial decisions for you. They can work either jointly or severally (up to you). So, Kody to pick more than one wife to handle the financials. And, the PoA does not have to be the same person as the healthcare proxy.

With that being said, Kody still might not have executed any of these documents. So, Robyn may be the default. But, Kody could execute these documents and put someone other than Robin "in charge" of things.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

I think we're getting in weeds with this issue. I agree that many people do not have wills - I was shocked as everyone else to find out Prince did not have a will. However, Prince did not have 4 wives. Kody has 4 wives and they even touched on the fact that "Robyn is now in charge' on the show, so we know it's something they have talked about. There is no way among those 4 women that they have not made provisions in the event Kody becomes incapacitated and/or dies. As I said Kody's dad died with 2 wives so that should have started a conversation if not already and Kody's brother died. I know Kody's brother wasn't a polygamist, but when someone dies who is your age you think about those things. If neither one of them had a will Kody watched while they went through the agony and COST of probate. He has a directive about his health so they're not arguing in the hospital. 😷 😠

[–] desertdude1953 9 years ago

We know they all have wills, it was part of an episode that was spurred by Meri's sister's death from colon cancer. They all felt that they needed to protect the children (remember when the children were their primary focus????!!!!!).

The lawyer that handled the adoption is the one that handled their wills. That is what he does for a living, he is an estate lawyer. If he is any kind of estate lawyer, then he would have also drawn up AHCD and living wills at the time he drafted their wills.

When Robyn made the comment she did during the divorce signing the other three people in the room looked at her like "are you daft, woman?"

While I am sure that Meri at times would love to pull the plug on Kody, I am sure that she is more than willing to let Robyn change his diapers.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

I forgot about that, but I thought they had talked about wills. I knew you would remember.

While I am sure that Meri at times would love to pull the plug on Kody, I am sure that she is more than willing to let Robyn change his diapers.

Robyn will probably still be changing diapers for her 10th child at the same time. 

[–] CherrySodaPop88 9 years ago

Just because you have a will does not mean you fill out the paperwork that says if this person is in an accident this is what you do.

I agree with the other posters, Robyn will make the decisions about Kody that are not specified in the will.

My brother had a will but when he died there was still drama regarding some things he did not put in the will, so it can happen and unless you both know exactly what is or isn't in Kody will it is fair to speculate that Robyn would take control if something happened to Kody.

[–] cinles 9 years ago

Take control of what exactly? 

[–] afamouspetty 8 years ago

Federally speaking, if Kody died- Robyn would receive his social security. All the kids under 18 would receive something but ultimately Robyn would receive the husbands amount since she is the LEGAL wife. Other benefits come with that. As in if Kody is on say Meri's house, then Robyn would get Kody's share if he died if it is not specifically outlined and even then she COULD contest it and may win. You never know. I don't think they were joking. I remember an episode long ago where Meri was discussing her role and doing what is right for the whole family etc being the legal wife. Then they said the same speech with Robyn and there was NO JOKE.

[–] cinles 8 years ago

Federally speaking, if Kody died- Robyn would receive his social security. All the kids under 18 would receive something but ultimately Robyn would receive the husbands' amount since she is the LEGAL wife.

Federally speaking you need to brush up on your knowledge of social security and death benefits.

I remember an episode long ago where Meri was discussing her role and doing what is right for the whole family etc being the legal wife. Then they said the same speech with Robyn and there was NO JOKE.

What you're talking about is the same episode I'm talking about. The episode where they talked about Robyn being in charge of the money was when they told Christine and Janelle about the divorce and marriage. They made a joke about Robyn taking care of everyone. However, just like a lot of things on the show, they forgot they had already had a show on wills. All the Browns have a will. I bet every polygamist has one plus the Browns are not only wealthy but they have many business interests. In terms of spousal interest, if it is a community property state which Nevada is, the spouse can file a claim if their spouse leaves property to someone else. However, it is only property they obtained together after they were married. Kody and Robyn may have purchased a car or taken more trips to Victoria Secret, but even if Kody dies intestate, Robyn has no claim on any of Kody's property, which as far as we know is half of Meri's house. After thinking about that, it is interesting that he is still listed on Meri's house. Someone should check on that and you need to brush up on death benefits.

[–] desertdude1953 8 years ago

Kody is still listed on Meri's house and was added to Robyn's house on September 28, 2015. I have a feeling that was to make the marriage and adoption look legit.

[–] cinles 8 years ago

Interesting! Thank you for looking that up. However, if they didn't have wills, does he now have rights over Robyn's house? It's a complex issue. If they are making house payments to someone, couldn't it also be for tax reasons?

[–] CherrySodaPop88 9 years ago

Robyn always gets what she wants one way or another.

[–] Mort11 9 years ago

I'll just say that I will agree with almost anything negative about Robyn. She IS a master manipulator and it is very obvious.
The DO have a will. There was a discussion about that on the show...

[–] Lovetvshows 9 years ago

"She has another baby after stating she has too much work to do to have a baby (despite having a nanny and several older children caring for the young kids all the time) she did this to regrab Kody's attention."

I found it interesting that as soon as she was legally married to Kody all of a sudden she found time to have another baby from her oh so busy schedule. 

[–] annaoye 8 years ago

i agree with you 100%. i cannot stand Robyn. i feel all her tears are fake. she has no genuine emotion. she comes across super bland, there is nothing interesting or charming about her. how kody fell for her, i don't know.
at least christine is quirky, which is kind of cute, and janelle is poised and strong willed, which are traits that are attractive.
meri is just a potato sack and robyn is a cunning snake... Urgh.
but i do feel bad for meri for being so dumb and letting robyn ruin her life. must be really desperate...

[–] Holloway_Harris 8 years ago

Kody and Robyn refuse to divorce later on and have him remarry Meri even though that seems like the fair and right thing to do and if it is only paperwork then why not? Legally she should be in charge if Kody dies, she is afterall the first wife and been with him the longest.

I agree with you on this. I think the divorce took a BIG toll on Meri. I'm wondering if the divorce for the sake of adopting Robyn's children was a storyline for the show that Meri was not fully in agreement but went along with for the paycheck. Being first wife and legal wife has it's perks psychologically and in the pecking order of the wives regardless of what they say publicly. I think that left her wide open emotionally for the catfishing.