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Meri and Kody struggling for 12 years?


So what was that whole first and second season lovefest about? They came off as the most in love of them all. She even looked shocked to hear Kody thought their marriage was on the rocks that long when he told Nancy.

I got the impression she thought things went downhill when she was bullied into the legal divorce. From where I sat watching and since I just rewatched the first season, Kody is a lying snake no wonder Meri was in a deep depression.

There is no way, in my opinion, to fix their marriage, because he doesn't want to. That means giving up the extra night with Robyn that I'm sure she got and the excuse was the baby. Meri should leave and get her own show, the best parts were of her and that woman drinking and trashing on the catfish woman, imagine her doing it to Kody?

Meri needs to give up the dream of being Kodys wife, it's over for him and he needs to stop jerking her around. She has a history of depression and she is just coming around again. He's such a liar.

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I can see things from Kody's perspective too though. Meri told him to leave her alone, to stop coming to her house, because she was ready to ride off into the sunset with her hot stud. Then her hot stud turns into a creepy, ugly lesbian and now she's pouting because Kody is staying away from her like she told him too.

Meri needs to realise that her marriage is over and stop with the martyr BS and just move on.

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I said on another thread that I figure as soon as the show ends, Meri is out of there. I was told by another poster that there would already have to be a guy lined up for Meri to leave, as she wouldn't go on her own. So time will tell.

I agree that she & Kody are basically quits, and I don't see any hope for their marriage.

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That was me who said Meri needed a man. If she doesn't have another man why would she leave? She's lonely being married - she'd be more lonely if she left and every time someone says a sister wife is going to leave, my question is, where are they going to go?

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They sold the house in Lehi, she can't go there anymore.

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I do think meri has mental illness

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Kody definitely looks checked out, if he wasn't I think he'd be furious over "Sam".

Dexter: I would give everything to feel nothing again.

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He does look pretty uninterested, however even with what Mariah said, he still views this as an attack on their family and not necessarily Meri cheating - at least in public.

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His ego would never allow him to think otherwise IMO. He really believes he's God's Gift.

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Oh I think he knows. He seemed to be expressing some real reticence about doing the work necessary to try and get their marriage back on track. I think he is still hurt and feels betrayed.

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"Shaken, not ridiculed"

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Kody talks about his marriage to Meri in such a clinical, detached way. If there is no emotional attachment and underlying love ( which there doesn't seem to be),that does not leave much to rebuild a relationship on.

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It just seems like some serious denial to me if he really thinks that.

Dexter: I would give everything to feel nothing again.

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Meri should not have cheated. I though he handled it very well considering what she did. Meri and Cody shoukd divorce and meri shoukd get therapy.

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I still think Kody's ego is so huge that it won't allow him to entertain the idea that Meri may have considered leaving him for someone else. He acts like Meri was a lost, lonely puppy looking for a friend. I really think there was a point when Meri believed Sam was real and actually considered making a life with "IT".

Right now Kody seems to be quite satisfied getting his love tank filled by his other wives, and has zero affection for Meri. Meri's comments that she could "so live here", at that cute little wine tasting place tells me she is still fantasizing about a new life on her own.

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she is still fantasizing about a new life on her own.


And who would blame her?

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