It is just all about her all the time. Instead of deciding how to support Mariah, it is all about how she is going to deal with it and how her dreams are shattered. There she is envying the other wives because their kids aren't gay. Damn she is so selfish...
ANOTHER PITY PARTY FOR MERI...
Taking the reality show aspect out of it, her reaction is pretty normal. In fact, I'm a little worried about Kody.
shareMort we get it....you don't like Meri ....you said the same thing in the other thread....no need to keep saying it over and over
shareI will say it as many times as I want. No, I am not a big fan of Meri but my point was how she always makes everything about her not that I don't like Meri so I guess you don't get it. No need to be rude...
shareI'm not being rude. There is just no need to say the same thing over and over. Meri isn't making Mariah being gay about her--at least I don't think she is. You think she is so...whatever.
shareWhen you tell someone what to post, that is rude. If you don't like what a person posts then don't read it or pass it up. With all the crap that is posted here, I would hardly find my posts so redundant that I need reprimanded for them...
shareI agree with you. We knew Meri would make this about her. She is so.....emotional. And not in the Robin way. Robin is open with how she feels. Meri seems like she is constantly choking on her feelings, like she can't process them (her words, she can't ever seem to process her feelings) and so explodes in these emotional purges. Meri seems like she needs to have deep emotional bonding moments frequently, and she is devastated if she can't have them. I had a boss like that once. She wanted to be my friend and discuss our lives and feelings a lot. I found that weird and draining and I didn't reciprocate. I wonder if Mariah feels the same way. She shuts down around Meri. Meri drains her, and Mariah protects herself by avoiding her mom. Makes sense to me. I wouldn't want to be around someone always pressuring me to have deep, meaningful, heart to heart conversations all the time. How exhausting!
shareYes, Meri exhausts me with her constant negativity and drama. My own family has come to me with many shocking episodes at times but instead of making it about me, I work on helping and supporting them. I hate the woe is me way of handling things and that is always what it turns into with Meri. Just my humble opinion, not trying to offend anyone here...
shareWell, she's been in therapy for how long?
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I said I'd feed you...I didn't say who to.
It is just all about her all the time. Instead of deciding how to support Mariah, it is all about how she is going to deal with it and how her dreams are shattered. There she is envying the other wives because their kids aren't gay. Damn she is so selfish...
ANOTHER PITY PARTY FOR MERI...
All this is true, yet I still feel sorry for Meri. I don't think she ever wanted to share Kody.....and then when the sister wives proved more fertile than her..THEN, giving up legal wife status to Robyn.....I don't know...I just have empathy for Meri. However, she needs to find something to do....go back to school or get a real job or divorce Kody and start a new life. It's easier said than done but she needs to stop rolling in it. Get off your A$$ Meri.
You make very good points Holloway. I just get so sick of her constant whining that I overlook a lot of the reasons that she is so miserable. She really does need to find something to keep her busy and make her feel more confidence as a person...
shareShe really does need to find something to keep her busy and make her feel more confidence as a person...
Agree.
Being on a successful reality show isn't helping either. Kinda cuts her motivation somewhat. Under normal circumstances someone that unhappy would probably just leave....religious beliefs or not. She has a grown child, lots of money (while she's on the show), and is FREE. She is already divorced, for God's sake! It would be easy and they would probably keep her on the show for the new storyline.
Selfish people always struggle with this, they can't seem to understand what anyone else is going through and don't seem to care. Meri should realize this is not all about her or her possible grandchildren. Mariah just shared something huge and difficult with her family and she should be focused on comforting Mariah instead of what she thinks she is missing out on.
shareThat is exactly what I was trying to say. I agree Margo...
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