I'm too old for this


I could not identify with or even feel anything for these characters and their teenage angst. There were a few nice things about this movie, but it was a bit too hipstery/instagramy for me. As for the plot: a lot of it was about crawling out of the friendzone, which is a tired plot device, while the dark and messed-up storylines were merely glossed over.
Also: come on, they seriously didn't know David Bowie's Heroes?

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I felt the same. And also didnt buy the Bowie thing.

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Maybe you're right. I'm not even old enough to have been a teenager in the early 90s (I was in primary school). Also, I'm European, so I guess I had different musical input while growing up so I can't make safe assumptions about what people "across the pond" were exposed to.

But as it concerns the style and aesthetics of the movie, it is mostly influenced by when it is made (2012) rather than when it's taking place, which is why I called it hipstery/instagram-y, as in: too stylised / polished.
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I could not identify with or even feel anything for these characters and their teenage angst. There were a few nice things about this movie, but it was a bit too hipstery/instagramy for me. As for the plot: a lot of it was about crawling out of the friendzone, which is a tired plot device, while the dark and messed-up storylines were merely glossed over.
Also: come on, they seriously didn't know David Bowie's Heroes?


To each his own, of course, but personally I identified with it, especially as it relates to connecting with those people in your life with whom you know you’ll be forever linked. Like Charlie, I made those friendships during my freshman year of high school, and it was life-changing. As for Heroes, I didn’t know the song in 1992 either.

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read the book its tells the story better

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yeah i know how you feel, i think i just about crossed the age where i could "understand" teenage movies

so many movies, so little time

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I feel you. This is how I feel about teen movies made before the 90s - The Breakfast Club, Dazed and Confused etc. I just can't empathize with that period (the 80s, 70s...) because I was born at the middle of the 90s in Europe and I didn't have exposure in my own adolescence to the things depicted in those films. However, I can empathize with teen films made after the 90s, especially the 2000s, because they're closer in time to my own adolescence and I might have experienced some similar situations.

'The Perks of Being a Wallflower' is kind of an odd one because it's a 2010s film and the plot is supposed to take place in the 90s (20 years gap in time) but it somehow works that way. Perhaps the 'hipstery/instagramy' thing comes from the fact that they used a filter over the film to make it appear older than it is and fade the bright colors that we see in films nowadays (stylistic effect). The plot is much clearer in the book, but it mainly concerns Charlie getting over a lot of things that happened in his life, and the main themes are child abuse (Charlie was abused as a child by his aunt, his aunt was also abused as a child and as an adult by her boyfriends, Sam was also abused as a child by her dad's boss, Brad was physically abused by his dad for being gay etc.) and mental health issues (Charlie's depression following his abuse and the death of his abuser i.e. his aunt). They merely gloss over these to keep the PG-13 rating - if they divulged or explained more explicitly what happened to the characters, the film would've gotten NG-17. The film obviously isn't about getting into pretty Sam's pants!

It's very, very possible that they didn't know David Bowie's 1977 hit Heroes if they were teens in the 90s. I didn't know Heroes until the 2000s, because that's when I started becoming a teen and developing a taste in music.

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My feelings exactly, though I did not want to start such a thread, Thanks for doing so.

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