How was this?


I don't live in the UK, so I haven't seen this yet, but from the reviews I've been reading so far, it looks as though it's pretty darn good.

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A gastronomic delight! Sorry couldn't resist that. Helena Bonham Carter is really quite good in it. Well worth a watch. I'm a failed nutritionist - never was much good at sciences or at least those you need to study it at university. I always adored domestic science as it was in my day, at school so part of me really enjoyed it for that. I'm not familiar with Nigel Slater's dishes but I gather he is a non traditional type cook. Tell you what Mrs Potter certainly fed them to death! Still a great skill to have and I'm going to check out his recipes now I think.

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I read the book a few years ago so was pleased to see that it had been made into a drama - it certainly didn't disappoint :)

The boy who played 'young Nigel' was brilliant - just looked him up on here and it looks like this is his first role - Well done to him!!

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I quite enjoyed it, but maybe I was expecting more of a traditional story. My fault I'm sure, but it was as if the director set out to make Nigel Slater look like a total prick, right down to the evil grin at the end.

Was I supposed to dislike the second Mrs Slater? I felt quite sorry for her, as the young Nigel basically bullied her the whole time she was with his dad.

I had no idea who Nigel Slater was before watching it; I only saw the trailers advertising it and thought it would be funnier than it turned out to be. I imagined it would be the boy and the cleaner locked in some sort of battle for the father's attention but it turned out a bit grim in the end, with a hard-working woman driven over the edge and the father miserable because the two most important people left in his life just couldn't get along - Ken Stott was wonderful by the way, and I would have liked to have seen more of him.

So, overall not bad, probably recommended if you're already familiar with Nigel Slater, but the defining "message" left me scratching my head, particularly as this was apparently based on an autobiographical book which I'm sure wouldn't have been as unflattering to Nigel as the film was.

EDIT: the more I think about it, the more I'm leaning towards it being badly directed. The performances were good. I suspect the film was too close to the source material. The start did drag and while it was over-sentimental, Nigel's mother wasn't portrayed as being sweet - we were TOLD she was sweet - she was portrayed as being a drip who routinely put her son second to her unreasonable husband. But it was obvious that the father was merely re-directing the frustration he felt about his wife's illness and taking it out on the boy. And every time young Nigel expressed his love for his mother, he was acting like a spoiled and selfish brat whose primary concern regarding his mother's illness being that she wouldn't be around to look after him.

I dunno. Maybe there's a reason Hollywood sticks to a formula.

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I thought his father was the biggest culprit, inability to relate to his boy. At least Mrs Potter tried. The previous reviewer was right though Helena was wonderful in it. I really did want to shout at Nigel's mum though - how can anyone be that clueless at cooking!

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I also feel bad for Mrs Potter - Nigel's hatred of her turned her into a competitive cow. Were we suppose to like Nigel by the end of it? I didn't.

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I also feel bad for Mrs Potter - Nigel's hatred of her turned her into a competitive cow. Were we suppose to like Nigel by the end of it? I didn't.


I have to say that you make a good point there. Even though Nigel was a child and maybe she shouldn't have got into such a competitive spirit with him (she should have let him have his "Wednesday", for instance), she did feel her relationship was being threatened by Nigel's snobbish and mean-spirited disapproval. Sure, Mrs Potter had her faults, but I also feel that Nigel was also to blame, too. It wasn't just her overfeeding that killed his father, it was also Nigel's own actions that also contributed towards this. BTW, that smile at the end might have been better used in critical self-reflection than in smugness. Still, despite all that, it has to be said that the death of his mother also weighed on him, so at least his initial reactions to his new step-mother should be seen in that light.

I did enjoy the fact that this programme didn't have just black-and-white heroes and villains. I like the fact that Nigel, his father and Mrs Potter had their faults. Mind you, I have heard that the book goes into more depth as to why Nigel hated Mrs Potter, that his father was meant to be meaner than portrayed, and that Nigel and his step-mother did come to terms at the end, where he used to go out to lunch with her each Sunday. I also heard it said that the book doesn't suggest that Nigel thought ill of his step-mother for snobbish reasons, but for other things, but as I've not read the book, I can't confirm.

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I thought it was excellent, very pleasing to watch and well acted.







"Life after death is as improbable as sex after marriage"- Madeline Kahn(CLUE, 1985)

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Thank you all for your replies.

Just got to watching the film - the boy who played young Slater was excellent. Everybody else too, of course.
I have to agree with all who said that the ending was rather morbid, and I felt rather bad for the second Mrs. Slater at the end.

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I had little sympathy for Mrs Potter. She used Nigel's Dad to achieve her goals, all the while carrying on a competition with him, a child. She presumed to fill the role of replacement mother, when that position was not available, and she clearly lacked the maturity for it. Then, she turns on a dime, and starts being nice to Nigel? That's not how it works.

I found the end uplifting. Nigel thanked Mrs Potter for providing the adversity that gave him the skills to survive on his own.

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She used Nigel's Dad to achieve her goals

I'm trying to think back here, and I don't remember her using him. How so?

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the ending was rather morbid


Did we watch the same movie? The movie ends on a high note. Nigel has gotten a job at the Savoy London and feels happy and very optimistic about his new life.

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I wrote that post over a year ago so I don't remember exactly what I was thinking as I was writing it, but I believe I used the word "morbid" to describe the ending because of Nigel's behaviour (and his spiteful smile) toward his stepmother there.

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yeh...too bad he was so cold to her when she was trying to be makin up for being so mean, but i guess he must've had his reasons for not liking her so much. VERY good movie...i cant cook well, but hell now i wish i could lol. curious tho..whatever happened to the real Stuart in the movie? Nigel worked in the restaurant and met him if u havent seen the movie yet. thanks

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