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Most realistic sex scenes.. ever?


I thought the sex scenes in this movie captured the humour in sex as it really is. I've never seen anything else on film quite like it, has anyone else?

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I know I've seen something else where I thought it caught the fun and humour of sex with someone you can have a laugh with, but I can't think what it is right now. Definitely this would be in a top five list, not least for the references to teaching a man the oral ABCs doesn't work for everyone :p

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There's a KKK joke in there but I'm too lazy to dig it up.

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There's a KKK joke in there but I'm too lazy to dig it up.

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He was clearly talking about the dialogue and how they act. The sheets thing is due to this being an American movie. As we know it would be a crime to show people naked while making love. Now if someone had to get graphically shot in the face that would be just fine.

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Wow if people are realistically having unsafe oral sex with people they just met, then yeah.

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Wow if people are realistically having unsafe oral sex with people they just met, then yeah.
Have you been on, or near, a college campus? Or a bar? Or you really believe that people having sex (oral or otherwise) with people they just met is not realistic?

"She should have some sense, she's getting a PhD. My kid eats waffsicles!"

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You missed the word "unsafe" somewhere in that sentence.

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No, I didn't. Its absence in MY reply indicates and implies that people have both safe and unsafe sex with people they just met.

"She should have some sense, she's getting a PhD. My kid eats waffsicles!"

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Which I am pointing out as gross and why STD's are a growing problem because no matter how much we know we make it OK to indulge in such behavior by glamorizing it on screen, in a movie that only teens and 20-somethings could enjoy.

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Er.. no.
Originally you said:

Wow if people are realistically having unsafe oral sex with people they just met, then yeah.


Meaning.. you didnt believe it was people really did this in real life!

And now all of a sudden you're talking about STD's and blah blah.. so you DO believe this happens in real life now??
Or you're just one of those losers who are really prudish about sex and love to argue for no reason.



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Please define safe oral sex.

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Whatever your mom recommends, I'd trust her.

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Have you been on, or near, a college campus? Or a bar? Or you really believe that people having sex (oral or otherwise) with people they just met is not realistic?

What bars do you go to, and where can I find them? Because I don't speak for the person you're replying to, but I've never had sex with people I just met near any college campuses or bars.



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Wow, buzzkill much?

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LOL

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I just saw the movie today and that is exactly what I said. The sex was hysterical and so realistic. The part where she tries to kiss him after oral sex and he makes an EEW! face cracked me up. Of course the sheets were in the way but that is a movie rating thing and could not be helped. Those were my favorite love scenes in a long time.

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I loved when they were talking during sex cuz thats what me and my friend do ALL the time.

We have like fuill blown conversations, sometimes we get more into the talks than the sex

I only blow things that are pink

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Dear Sir,

Full blown conversations, right? You don't mind being talkative or verbose in that position, right, you bloody lucky son of a gun! And do you come to a conclusive resolution of your discussion, or do you miss the critical moment when you must nail down your interlocutor? Oh, sorry... I thought you were having sex too. But you say you do, right? Talking does not interrupt the coitus if I gather the picture correctly, right? Well, this is rather fkdup if you don't mind me saying...

I'm an open-minded bloke, you know, and like a new Gulliver, I like to learn from the customs of the strange foreign inhabitants of the Imdb planet. Therefore, I learnt from you that one can have a full blown conversation during a full blown mating. This is so cool! I've met (very) talkative ladies in my peregrinations across strange lands and distant planets, but so far, they always told me to shut the f....p when we were both already engaged in the process of said f.....g.

I'm like Candide, you know, Voltaire's character, and my intentions are genuine and not derogatory in any way. I simply mean to expand the range of my horizontal abilities without being ejected from my partner before the end of an argument. Would you please consider teaching me the art of full blown oral action of any kind. as long as it can still be sex for both me and her, whoever she might be, and whatever the topic, in the janner you describe, dear Sir?

Flash Gulliver, esq., space explorer

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2nd worst reply i've ever seen.

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u should watch the sex and city series. sex in there is humourous in every way

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I thought it was pretty realistic. Infact, some of the things they said and situations they got in (I.E stopping in the middle of sexual activity to pee despite the main of a boner) have happened to me!

I'm Tom Hanks and I want you in my bed.

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I agree with the OP, the scene where they're telling each other EXACTLY what to do? Loved it. I actually wrote about it in my last Blog entry. They trust each other and aren't caught up in impressing, so they really say what they want. And the result is really good sex.

So I don't know if this is realistic, but I hope it is. Now we have a film we can refer to at least!

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^^

True, it helps that Mila and JT have great chemistry so it seems more natural. That adds a lot of dynamic to their scenes.

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they did a good job with it because now women are more comfortable telling guys exactly what they want in bed, and that's what the jamie character did.

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Agreed, loved the way the sex scenes were in this film. Would have been easy to do any old copy-pasted slick hollywood sex scene but it was really realistic and funny. I feel like I've seen those kind of awkward sex scenes in a few movies before but I liked that it wasn't uncomfortable to watch and they were really straight forward about it.

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