I felt bad for Spider the entire movie

I felt he was a terribly written character among other terribly written characters. Every time he hissed, I just laughed. Your points aren't unfair. I just think the script was bad and that James Cameron doesn't like human beings unless they scientists.

To be fair, Jake did say from the beginning that Spider was more like a stray cat and Neytiri didn't like him. Plus, Jake knew that he wasn't in danger from the humans.

Not saying it's right, just that it isn't unexpected.

All of your points are well taken. But one could point out this about Spiders "loyalty" -- he betrayed the Sully family by saving his "father" but not telling them about it. That only sets the family up for a future ambush, which could prove fatal to all or part of the family.

Thank you. I felt the same whole movie.

They did not care about him at all. It was hilarious when he was captured and Sully Family was like: "Oh well bad for you kid". Then packed their things and ran away, forgetting about his existence. That poor kid was with them his whole life. And they just dumped him like he was nothing.

I was thinking: "If that was one of the 3 kids of Jake and Neytiri then they would plan rescue mission immediately and never abandon her. And what was the forth child (Sigourney Weaver mini-me) I didndt even understand. She was adopted I assume? I feel like Sully Family would abandon her too. They only cared about their biological blood kids.

And then again when family reunited after big battle (minus older one) and it was voice over how they are all family and care for each other. And I was like: "Excuse me. Didnt you forget someone? Like Spider kid? You dont care at all that he is missing again? Like that kid just returned to save your kids. Have a little respect".

And then he showed up and everyone moved on. He truly was like a stray cat to them. And I feel like they would even love stray cat more and would worry about him. Only Sigourney Weaver mini-me cared about him as her friend.

Like imagine poor kid being captured and sitting there, being tortured and thinking that it okey, his family and friends are plotting his rescue. But in reality no one did and they forgot about his existence.

That was so harsh on him. No wonder he was interested in spending time with his daddy. As it looks like only daddy cared about him little when he didnt want him to be killed.

The character was very poorly written and acting with conflicting motivations almost scene to scene.

It was more than obvious he was going to be threatened to get to Quaritch. It's also obvious that he will have some kind of betrayal/redemption arc likely ending with him setting an example for others.

Much like how the girl is going to be the living embodiment of Eywa

Much like how once we've met all the different tribes and had all the skirmishes in the last movie there will be another World Wide Eywa vs Humans fight only this time we will all learn to love each other and get along.