threesome relationship

"if your listened"....easy lit...easy...

op, of course...that's why it almost never happens in RL and when it does, it's not with the hottest, mensa types..it's trashy messes that usually ends in one person being killed :)



it is better to have a gun and not need it, than to need a gun and not have it

I basically interpreted it as they "used" her to fulfill the needs they could not get with one another. There is certainly credence to the idea that they are emotionally "in love" especially considering Chon doesn't even have as deep a relationship with the men with whom he served in Afghanistan. It all really hinges on how a person defines "gay" though; they had a deep love for each other (moreso than O as you mentioned) but it wasn't a homosexual/physical attraction either. They basically used O as their sexual outlet for their unique relationship.

This is probably the only reason the relationship was so successful as to the original topic. There is none of the traditional jealousy in the MFM triangle when the men have the strongest bond of the three. But in general, it would seem to be pretty tough make a go of it for an extended time at least in my opinion.

Read the book then watched the movie. Didn't think about the homosexual tones until looking on this board. Now rewatching *DING*

I think they both really loved her but loved each other more. I agree she was a participant in their relationship but was loved by both guys. Why else would Ben start killing people to get her back or would they take her when they planned on disappearing? I think I could totally do a 3 some relationships with those hot asses as long as it was like in the movie- no jealousy, just lots oh lovin'