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Good, but what about the bullying?


There were many good things about this movie. But didn't anybody get a little bit of a sour taste in their mouths that the two protagonists were bullies?

Bullies are usually weak, insecure people (or just sociopaths-in-the-making). Oliver certainly was insecure, and was portrayed as bullying in order to be accepted by others, which is very true to life. He wasn't really a cruel kid though, and felt bad about it when it went too far, but when it didn't he was too self-absorbed to worry about others. And he had no problem keeping "tormenting the weak" to maintain Jordana's respect. Probably a pretty realistic portrayal of an immature, self-absorbed person, but when you think about it kinda hard to care about as a character.

Jordana is more troublesome. There was no explanation for why she was a bully. At first I thought it had to do with trouble at home, her mother being sick. Maybe it did, but her mother did get well and there didn't seem to be any other problems with her family life from before. Still, I guess some kids just naturally follow along and do what everybody else does, like picking on those lower in the pecking order, without feeling bad about it. But I don't think these kids grow up to be anything but a**holes, quite frankly. I know, a lot of kids do this, but remember also that there are a lot of a**holes out there.

In short, I had to really ignore that aspect of the characters to try to care about them at all. With Jordana it was especially hard.

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Wasn't the way his bully girlfriend (who he has chosen for himself) torments him, in any way redeeming (for the movie, not for him)? If you choose a bullying girlfriend, you get a girlfriend who bullys you. And what's more he doesn't actually seem to want her unless she's a bully.

It's black humour. If the protagonist wasn't a complete git, it wouldn't be funny.

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I sat down with my mate last night really looking forward to what a lot of people and critics were saying is one of the best films of the year. Half way through, i couldn't wait for the film to end! The lead character(Oliver) was detestable in every way possible. For starters he was a bully, the pushing of the girl into the pond at the start of the film was the first of many loathsome scenes involving this weird, serial-killer in-waiting odd-job! He then meets a girl who's as detached as he is(though she could be forgiven seeing as her mother is potentially dying). Another dark(not in a good way) moment see's Oliver contemplate poisoning Jordanna's pet dog in a banal attempt to 'prepare her for her mothers own death'! Another character who really got my goat is Oliver's father Lloyd. A pathetic, down-trodden bore, who watches on mutely as his neurotic wife slips closer and closer into the arms of mullet haired, new-age psychic Graham Purvis(the films saving grace, played brilliantly by Paddy Considine). Is it any wonder that Oliver is the way he is!! So what is this film? Comedy? Coming-of-age? Crap? I'll roll with the latter....

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'Bullying' in Britain (and most of the rest of the world) is not as big of a deal as it is in America. It happens.

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I'm not in America, if that's what you thought.

Bullying is a big deal, in any country. It can often emotionally scar people for life.

Here is one link: http://www.abc.tcd.ie/

Another: http://www.ncsl.org/default.aspx?tabid=12952

Quote: "A study conducted in Finland found that boys who frequently are bullied are more than five times more likely to be moderately to severely depressed and four times more likely to be suicidal, while frequently bullied girls are more than three times more likely to be moderately to severely depressed and eight times more likely to be suicidal."

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I had massive problems with that and it basically ruined the film for me. I know that protaganists don't always have to be perfect, especially not if they are teenagers, but to have them as actually lame, stupid people? Makes it very hard to care for them. I think most teenagers are stupid and self-absorbed at some point but that doesn't have to extend to bullying with no remorse - it certainly didn't for me or most of my friends! It didn't really give them a reason to behave like that.

I made a similar thread, though not as good as yours: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1440292/board/flat/185650603

Btw I'm from Australia and have spent a lot of time in Britain (am also a citizen) - I still think it's a big deal.

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You have to recognise that the protagonist is a horrible person and relish every bad thing that Jordana does to him, knowing that he deserves the lot.

When Jordana eventually comes to stop being so mean he loses interest. He wants the sadist who burns his leg hair for fun, not the warm-hearted girl she turns into when faced with the suffering of her mother. (Of course, at the end she seems remember that she likes making him do what she says. She likes to be able to make him suffer. And to be honest we still want him to suffer too. That's why I think the ending works.)

I think we are supposed to side with the bullying victim who tells him to "F off and die". Heck, didn't everyone laugh when she said that? It just summed things up so well.


"he was too self-absorbed to worry about others"

Exactly. But he still tries to justify it. By hearing his perspective on things we get to hear just what a weasel he really is. The title "Submarine" relates to his idea that, like Submarines, we all understand each other through sonar (as in, we don't know what's going on inside each other's heads, we just try to reach out as best we can). But we know what's in Oliver's head. While other characters can only guess we, the audience, know just what a disgusting weasel he really is. It's black humour. There's a certain sadism in the humour because it is always at someone else's expense.

When the bully says "F off and die" our laughter is mocking a bully who wants to pretend he's "not so bad". It's punchlines like that which made me love this movie.

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That's an interesting take on it, and I think there's certainly an element of what you're describing in the movie. However, I also think that the viewer is supposed to sympathize with the guy. Maybe that's the problem with the movie, it can't decide if the protagonist is an a**hole that we should laugh at, or somebody we should care about. In my opinion it wouldn't work very well as a movie anyway if all we're supposed to do is laugh at him because it's not that laugh-out-loud funny (although it's funny in places).

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He is a normal kid just trying to fit in. Unfortunately it did lead to bullying, but he did feel very bad about it. Who at school didn't do stupid things to impress friends or the opposite sex?

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Where have I said I was surprised? Actually I'm fully aware that bullying in reality can be much much worse than what was shown in this movie. Why don't you try reading what I wrote instead of replying to something totally different. I have seen and liked movies with subject matter much darker and more realistic than this movie. That's just not what I was talking about.

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"Jordana is more troublesome. There was no explanation for why she was a bully."

Um... that's her character. She's an absolutely horrible spiteful little b**ch. And the main reason we were able to like her character was because when she inflicts her sadism on the main protagonist, we kind of feel like he deserves it.

Difficulties at home don't excuse bad behaviour and in fact it is Jordana's difficulties at home that make her decide NOT to be such a horrible person anymore. (Which ironically means that Oliver doesn't want to be her boyfriend anymore.)

We aren't supposed to like these characters. We are supposed to laugh AT them. It's a dark comedy and we are supposed to enjoy the suffering of the protagonists (Jordana making Oliver wade into the water and get his trousers all wet while she is comfortably above the water level in her boots) and the ridiculousness of the protagonists (Oliver telling the victim of his bullying that it'll make her stronger and her unceremoniously telling him to "f-k off and die") and they have both in spades.

He wasn't really a cruel kid though, and felt bad about it when it went too far, but when it didn't he was too self-absorbed to worry about others.

Apples and Oranges. He's not exactly cruel, but he's a selfish little s-t? Same difference.

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You're contradicting yourself. You talk about why we like Jordana's character, and then you say we're not supposed to like these characters.

I'm pretty sure we're supposed to laugh at these characters, but but also that we're supposed to like them. Nobody really wants to watch a coming-of-age comedy drama where the protagonists are totally unlikable douchebags that you don't care at all what happens to. In that, I think the movie failed at least partially.

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Jordana really is a nasty piece of crap.......

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Well I guess considering the time era, especially in most English speaking countries, I guess there weren't enough of after school programs or "challenge day" programs for young adults to learn that bullying is wrong, even when it comes to peer pressure. I guess it's the kind of environment where it is rare for a brave person to call some bullies out, like with Degrassi series. It seems like the protagonist and everybody around him appears to have trouble expressing feelings in comfort. The only person who didn't mind listening was his teacher, but he chose not to share anything with his teacher.

Yeah, they're not the most likable teens. Even as a couple, they seem to not understand how to logically share empathy between each other-- all they both do is torment each other. lol. Despite their flawed characters, I still like the movie. I thought the movie was mediocre.

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As human beings it is in our nature to seek to control things or feel a sense of power at least for a while. For Oliver and his girlfriend to be at the time the victim is the "larger" girl that ends up leaving school for that very reason. But dude you're missing the point. If you went to school, you were a part of bullying at some point (as the perpetrator or the victim) and this is a biopic!! You're totally missing the point of this film man. We are all pretentious, insecure bullies at times. Notice that Oliver and his girlfirend are both bullied. May I ask what kind of character you care about in a film? Not real one I take it...

"Doublethink. To deliberately believe in lies, while knowing they're false." Henry Barthes

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Oh, I don't remember enough to really reply to this in depth.
But my ability or inability to empathize with a character has a lot to do with the kind of movie it is. I remember enjoying Bad Lt, and that guy certainly isn't a good person.

This movie came off as trying to be a funny and quirky feel-good movie, not a movie that really addresses the bad characteristics of the protagonists in any meaningful way. So it seemed to be using the bullying more as a comedic element I guess, not taking it seriously.

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I like it because it blends drama and comedy so well and the reason I find the bulling treated as slightly comedic is because for bullies it is in fact fun! And another reason the filmmaker may have chosen this route is because of how bullying really is ridiculous and wrong. Anyway, a good protagonist should be complex and Oliver definitely is. For most people those are more relatable. I guess not for you.

"Doublethink. To deliberately believe in lies, while knowing they're false." Henry Barthes

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1) There's more to making a relatable character than giving him some good sides and some bad sides, and there's more to making a good movie.

2) The movie didn't treat it seriously because for bullies it's fun? You sound like you're trying to justify something.

3) Ironically you talk about being able to relate, but you don't show qualities of being able to empathize with another viewpoint than your own. Because I didn't like these characters in this movie, it automatically means I don't like realistic characters in any movie at all? Right.

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Hm... So why do you think I'm trying to justify something? And what does empathizing with another viewpoint mean? I'm disagreeing with you.

"Doublethink. To deliberately believe in lies, while knowing they're false." Henry Barthes

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