Who was bullied by a family member?

Try being the "oreo" in a black family...i'm sure all oreos go through it, its horrible

I just used oreo for better understanding. I'm more like the halloween special edition cookie. :) Blackanese ^^;

My cousins didn't exactly bully me, but they had a way of making it seem like i was never cool enough or stylish enough. they'd always bug me about why i wouldn't dress up, why i wouldn't go out more or have more friends. they ignored who i was. i was, thankfully, very smart and i used to read a lot and write a lot more advanced than my age. there were so many things for me to be proud of, but because i wasn't the dressing up social butterfly always giggly, it was as if none of it mattered and that was the way to go in the family. it's really weird how it is now, i grew up and became very outgoing and also carried on the skills i had from when i was young. so my cousins actually admire me now and speak very highly of me. but the memories are still there, and some things you can forgive but the hurt is still there underneath it all.

In what i consider being my family, which only are the closest blood relatives to me (my mother and father), we don't talk bad about each other, no matter what flaw the person might have.
Its only my older brother that i have not spoken to in years, who had a problem with that sort of thing, before he chose to break contact to me and my parents over god knows what, we never spoke bad about him, so that cant be the reason why.

My uncles and aunts families does this kind of thing and when they tried to target my mother, i told them to go f... them selves and that i no longer considered them and their children as being my family, since this is not how you treat your own blood.