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Its effects on me: this movie increased my medication costs.


I've been diagnosed with major chronic depression and currently
being treated in a private hospital. I've picked this movie to watch
within my "time-passer", a time slot allocated to each patient in the
ward to get a relief and come to our senses and the feelings of the
life. I well came to my senses after watching this movie...

Though otherwise gloomy, the movie at the beginning intrigued me with
well portrayed grizzly fields, a school as big as our clinic(where
people are bred to donate their organs), impeccable portrayal of rules
and ordinance... I could see the deepness of the movie that was about
to reveal. Well ordered milk bottles, only to be drunk by innocent
sheep to be slaughtered later, great performances of actors that open
doors to inner sense of their well being... These scenes cured me
better than Prozac and xanax, well momentarily.

Later the scenes faded away and been replaced by the ones where people
get in lines to get cut and only smile back at their fates. No reason
to defy or take the control of their lives, they are willing to cut
into pieces and given to their originals to replace their defective
parts. My clinic therapist suggested that these scenes might have also
reversed my therapy progress and I should be writing down all of my
thoughts about this movie to get rid of it for the good.

Though I can see and understand the dark and dejected atmosphere of
certain lives in certain places (the infamous writer of the original
book is from Japan), this movie could easily grasp the last breath of
life you've left and blow it away to eternity. The kids whose facial
gestures only change from mild sad to utter sad grow into worse
characters who only momentarily smile to cry thereafter with
dreariness.

Although it may help some people to see the "profoundness" of the work
done by the director, this movie only helped me increasing my
medication costs. Unfortunately I can't get a refund of what I've lost
but, oh well, only thing you see in this movie is loss anyway.
Ironically the movie is testing whether the kids had souls (not that it
mattered to story line anyway), it may as well rape and steal yours.

So please stray away from this movie unless you want to get a taste of
Prozac and boredom. Utter disappointment.

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can you even paint?

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yes i have a soul mister...

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Yes, this is definitely not a movie for you in your situation, and it can't be unseen!

U should choose something like 'Up in the Air' (it is late and I can't think of others like this right now)

Ironically the movie is testing whether the kids had souls (not that it mattered to story line anyway), it may as well rape and steal yours.


Actually I see this as an important part of the story; the story as a metaphor of our life - we are Kathy H, Tommy and Ruth, and the donations are an metaphor for, how can I put it, what we lose of our body and mind until we die. By illness, by accident, by your work, by war, etc.
The testing for souls is yet another 'naked' fact of life there is in the story; we have this life and only this life, there is no afterlife: because afterlife require a soul - so no gods, no religion, to give Tommy and Kathy an extention of their life. I see Miss Emily and the other 'art' lady as judges of humanity; are we more than life? are there existence beyond reality? (religions, gods).
Tommy did not like the answer to than.

Never let me go 10/10

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I rather think that it's a comment on the nature of sacrifice. By their complete willingness to sacrifice themselves in an almost Christ like manner for their fellow man any question as to whether or not the donors have souls has been answered absolutely. However, the question as to the existence and nature of the souls of those who devised the programme, bred the donors and reaped the benefit from their sacrifice is left open for you to decide.

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I've been diagnosed with major chronic depression and currently
being treated in a private hospital. I've picked this movie to watch
within my "time-passer", a time slot allocated to each patient in the
ward to get a relief and come to our senses and the feelings of the
life. I well came to my senses after watching this movie...

Though otherwise gloomy, the movie at the beginning intrigued me with
well portrayed grizzly fields, a school as big as our clinic(where
people are bred to donate their organs), impeccable portrayal of rules
and ordinance... I could see the deepness of the movie that was about
to reveal. Well ordered milk bottles, only to be drunk by innocent
sheep to be slaughtered later, great performances of actors that open
doors to inner sense of their well being... These scenes cured me
better than Prozac and xanax, well momentarily.

Later the scenes faded away and been replaced by the ones where people
get in lines to get cut and only smile back at their fates. No reason
to defy or take the control of their lives, they are willing to cut
into pieces and given to their originals to replace their defective
parts. My clinic therapist suggested that these scenes might have also
reversed my therapy progress and I should be writing down all of my
thoughts about this movie to get rid of it for the good.

Though I can see and understand the dark and dejected atmosphere of
certain lives in certain places (the infamous writer of the original
book is from Japan), this movie could easily grasp the last breath of
life you've left and blow it away to eternity. The kids whose facial
gestures only change from mild sad to utter sad grow into worse
characters who only momentarily smile to cry thereafter with
dreariness.

Although it may help some people to see the "profoundness" of the work
done by the director, this movie only helped me increasing my
medication costs. Unfortunately I can't get a refund of what I've lost
but, oh well, only thing you see in this movie is loss anyway.
Ironically the movie is testing whether the kids had souls (not that it
mattered to story line anyway), it may as well rape and steal yours.

So please stray away from this movie unless you want to get a taste of
Prozac and boredom. Utter disappointment.


Sorry you were so badly affected by this very sad film. I hope your health is a lot better now (10 months later).

No, don't watch "Up in the air"! That is depressing too in the end, although not nearly as depressing as "Never Let Me Go".

I noticed the way you write is quite creative and poetic.

I definitely encourage you to write fiction stories or poetry from your feelings and experience. I think you would be very good.

I have lived with depression all my life, but have been very lucky to have many creative projects to keep me busy, which help a lot.

I hope you don't think I'm being flippant or insensitive, but comedies always help me get through the toughest times. It's nice to wallow for a bit. I wallowed and cried at Sideways and Lost in Translation; slice-of-life films that have undertones of loneliness, but it's best to make sad films the exception rather than the norm.

Yes, "Never Let Me Go" is one of the most depressing I've seen in a long time, but I was fortunate to be "well" when I saw it, so it didn't have a detrimental effect on my fragile brain.

Much as I love these haunting dramas, I do have to alternate watching them with plenty of entertaining action, comedies, fantasy, and pretty much any Pixar kids' movie!

Now I hereby officially prescribe you the following 80s screwball comedies:

9 to 5
Big Business
Tootsie
Twins
Arthur
Ruthless People
Beverly Hill Cop 1 & 2
Overboard
Used Cars
See No Evil; Hear No Evil


All the very best health
and big hugs to you


"Look at it this way; in a hundred years who's gonna care?"

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