Tommy isn't doomed to feel like a loser who needs a good pat on the shoulder to feel like a worthwhile human being again.
That wasn't what I said.
Healing, is confronting the very thing you're avoiding, because it's painful. His brother left, he hated his brother for leaving. This ending is to say, he had his reasons, but he's here, and he had always wanted to be here, it's just life. Tommy taking care of his buddy's family, won't rid the hate for his brother. He hates his brother, but wants to reconnect with him badly.
It's not about who can do what with that money. Or who's weak or strong, or who's loser. It's about healing.
They have learnt, life isn't winning or losing, they can lose things they care for in a heartbeat. Dad can be loving, and come back a different person from war, mom can die of sudden illness. Even a good life can be screwed over by mortgage. Having each other is what's certain. So, no matter what mud life drags them through in the future, they are no longer alone in facing it. They were very much alone facing life, with one having to deal with the dad, and one having to take care of the mom.
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