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Did anyone feel a pervasive sense of sadness? (not in a bad way)


I think part of this is due to me growing older and some of the things I was indifferent or insensitive to in the past just hit me a lot harder nowadays.

But I don't think you can deny that there is really a palpable sense of sadness pervasive in this movie. In many animated/children movies, there is that one sad event at the beginning (Bambi, Lion King, Finding Nemo etc) and while it is not forgotten, the mood usually changes after it and the negative emotions aren't revisited often. Up may be the closest it comes to revisiting that feeling relatively often, but even that movie became pretty upbeat after the first 10 minutes.

But in Paddington, oh man, it is just everywhere. From the earthquake to the heartbreaking scene at the station with everyone ignoring him, to Paddington watching the black & white film of Peru and dissolving through it to see memories of his childhood, to him writing letters to his aunt thousands of miles away, to the family not trusting him and making him feel forced to leave. To what was probably the most gut wrenching scene in the movie of him going around trying to find the explorer in the rain and on the streets.

Again I really do think this has a bit to do with me. I used to be able to watch Grave of the Fireflies and Children of Men without even batting an eye, but now things get to me easier. But do you guys agree that there is a definite prevalence of sadness in this film?

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I noticed this as well. The scene where Paddington has left the Brown home and is lost in the rain, curling up on a bench in the cold. It broke my heart. I think essentially this is about a little orphaned boy who really needs a family to love him. Thankfully by the end of the film, he has just that. But if you don't walk out of the theatre just wanting to give Paddington a cuddle, you have a heart of stone.

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I too felt a pang of sadness during several parts of the movie, as I did 30 or so years ago when we brought our young son to see E.T. The Extraterrestrial. I teared up at the thought of the little alien so far from home and unable to get back - the same theme as Paddington. We used to read the Paddington books to our kids when they were small, and I've always had a soft spot for him. I'm not sure if it's your age or your sensibilities. With me, I'm just a soft touch for a hard luck story!

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As we grow older we get softer, not tougher

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Agreed, I felt a sense of nostalgia and sadness that balances out the film, making it more than just a kid's flick. This is a story that tries to recapture some sense of innocence or hope from days past in a modern world. The movie interweaves a number of historical layers into the story, from Paddington's personal history to world history, Britain's colonial past and the kindertransports of WWII. I was very touched by Paddington's earnest and hopeful ideal of Britain as it clashes with modern reality.

In addition to the wrenching scenes you mention above, there were also so many missed connections that made me feel quite sad, as well. I felt bad for the explorer Montgomery Clyde and that wistful little bit where Paddington's aunt and uncle have been saying they'll visit London for the past 40 years.

As for your last bit, I think as we develop a greater sense of time and history, it furthers our sense of empathy and emotional susceptibility to stories or films. I used to be the same, being pretty blase about great dramatic movies, but these days, it's a whole other story.

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Oh my god, yes!! I mean I cannot remember when was the last time I was so on a fence about a movie - meaning that while many scenes made me laugh out loud (which does not happen that often), I actually teared up a bit - all those scenes you mentioned. I wanted the happy end to last longer because of that, I felt like we deserve to watch him be happy at least half an hour or so :D after he suffered so much. He was really just a lost child with no relatives or friends and was so full of hope that everyone is kind and generous... It WAS heartbreaking.
While I recommend this movie to children I can´t imagine to want to watch it as a child - if I am so sad about it now, how would I feel about it then. I would be heartbroken. I´m glad I saw it as an 24 years old cowardly adult :)

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The sad elements of Paddington made it extra special....Points to ponder...

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I think you articulated how I feel about this movie perfectly. I really love how sad and funny bits are interwoven.

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