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A Gen Z'er yelled at me because I said these were bad movies.


I was at a bar last night and previews for a marathon (on TNT or TBS maybe) was advertised. These 2 20-somethings next to me got all giddy. I struck up a conversation about movies.

1 girl was got super offended that I said the Twilight movies were bad when discussing good movies vs. movies one likes. I think she took it as a slight against her (it was not) so I tried to further explain (unsuccessfully) that I myself like plenty of bad movies. Guilty pleasures, if you will.

She asked me what are examples of movies I think are good. I said, Casino, Goodfellas, and Shawshank. She thent went into a rant about "the patriarchy" and how those are very male-dominated movies that I "idolize". I said, "Well, I like the movies, but that doesn't mean I "idolize" that type of person." She couldn't grasp that either.

She then asked me, "How many fights have you been in?" I looked confused and said "What?" She repeated the question. Even her friend looked at her like she was nuts. I humored her and answered. She was trying to make some point. I couldn't hear her very well and what I could hear didn't make a lot of sense. Something about growing out of fighting? This started out as a conversation about movies, so I was pretty lost at this point.

It was very typical of someone her age who (CLEARLY) leans left. She was talking very fast and in a tone where she made it clear she thought very little of me. She wanted me to know she thought very little of me and was dying to call me a sexist, misogynist, or accuse me of something. You could hear it in her tone.

It was one of the most bizarre moments of my life. What the fuck is wrong with that generation? They can't have a conversation with someone they disagree with without screaming or insulting you in some way. An accusation is usually thrown in there too.

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wow, that is a crazy story.

gen z is so lost. our country and the world is so screwed, when those kids hit 40-45. it's gonna be a disaster.

i would love to hear what that gen z bitch thinks about elon taking over twitter lol

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You're reading rather a lot into a random drunken conversation, aren't you?

It does sound like one of those situations where everyone, including you, had had a couple of drinks and was acting like a twerp.

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Alcohol mixed with kids that were raised on social media and conditioned to talked shit to people without a filter is a real bad combination.

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Was it in a high pitched childish voice? That always cracks me up. 😄

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The OP’s not really good at picking up chicks.

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Not the OP. The 20 something Gen-Zs.

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SO SOME CREEPY OLD DRUNK SITS NEXT TO TWO YOUNG WOMEN AND PROCEEDS TO ATTEMPT TO BED THEM BY EXPLAINING HOW THE TWILIGHT MOVIES SUCK AND MAFIA MOVIES RULE...YOU LIFE SEEMS SAD...NICE STORY THOUGH,BRO. NOEMOJI

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Maybe she was insulted because you were implying that Twilight is a shallow "girlie" movie, in contrast to Goodfellas, Casino and Shawshank that are considered "serious" movies. She would have propably gotten less angry had you told her you liked "Die Hard" or some Schwarzenegger film, because these films are the male equivalent of "Twilight": shallow, entertaining, male fantasies that aren't meant to be taken too seriously.
Women tend to like Twilight because it includes many archetypical female fantasies: the heroine is a "common" girl who doesn't dress for attention, but a popular guy in high school sees something special in her and picks her from the rest of the girls. The heroine is involved in a relationship with a dark and mysterious guy whom everyone is scared of but also envious of. Also, the heroine is loved by two different men, who constantly fight over her, etc.

Perhaps the girl in the bar found these fantasies appealing, but she was angry because she thought you were personally accusing her of being shallow for wanting to be in the position of Bella.
Personally, I don't find these fantasies shallow at all, but the movie is a bit silly and shallow, because it doesn't bother to thoroughly delve on why Bella is such a special girl or why Edward is scary and mysterious. Sure, Edward is a centuries old vampire and Bella is a tomboy who likes reading books, but all this is shown through corny dialogue and clichéd situations. For me, as a girl, Twilight is a guilty pleasure, but it could have actually been a good movie if it took itself a little more seriously.

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What? I'm gen z, and most people in my generation don't think these movies are good, so I find that strange she would be defensive about it. I mean, don't get me wrong, I like the Twilight movies, but even I know they're bad. My mom loves and is obsessed with them, so we've watched it together a lot. It's all just good fun. It is not that serious. Age doesn't always matter in these instances.

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