I can relate to Beth a lot, like, a lot.
And I havent found someone like Dennis that would really "love me".
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That does suck. Sadly, the good guys are always farther away from the women where they live and vice versa. You're quite attractive and the good guys are always the shy ones or not total jocks during high school. Not all jocks are bad but the good guys who love you for more than you seem to be on the outside are always the ones you don't see after high school until a ten year reunion. I guess it's just a part of life and maturing.
shareThanks for the attractive comment. Were you the one that sent me the e-mail?
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How many guys saw your myspace page and started sending you emails?? I know your quite attractive, but these guys are hurting :)
shareHaha :) Just one.
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There are people like Dennis in the real world. They are just really ugly and almost no girl would talk to them...Kinda like in this movie. If anything, there are no girls like Beth cooper who would hang out with a loser kid like him.
shareOh, please; this movie was over the top. Not all nice guys are nerds.
shareI have to agree to that ^
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True. But in my experience, disproportionally many nerds are nice guys. Or girls, for that matter. On the average, they are far more accepting of others than most of the popular crowd, especially during the teen years. And it makes sense, too. It's kind of a social survival strategy.
But maybe I'm biased. I'm a bit of a nerd myself, in case that wasn't clear. }|:op
And he's not a loser too. He's just really bad with girls. Everyone's bad at something and just by being bad at it doesn't make the person a loser.
shareI can understand that.
I'm still waiting for the girl of my dreams I guess, not worried though, eventualy it will happen someday, I kinda wanted to have someone right now, but I'm not searching either, I'm enjoying everyday with friends and I think that's what matters. When the right girl appears I will know, I'm sure of it.
Wha I don't understand, why did you cry? Are your some sort of Beth Cooper? Or do yoiu feel like being a beth cooper?
You're 18 yrs old, but what I think is that you say unfortunately, you shold think thankfully, because you now know and you can change our own future.
So go out and meet the guys you would not meet otherwise due to peer pressure.
I am 34 and I have made lot's of friends this way. I am a run of the mill guy, with pletny of things to pick on, but I didn't let it bring me down.
Like in the movie, try to be who you want ot be, not how other people want you to be. I kicked some bums with the bullies once or twice, I went to brainiac events, I did sports (basketball) and also 6+ yrs of aerobics as the only guy. Just don't care what other people think as long as you do the right thing.
I cried right when she says to Denis "Thank you for loving me", it was stupid, but I couldn't control myself. Ive always wanted to feel loved and love back. I dated this guy in high school who always swore he would never hurt me, after a year and a half together I found out that he was cheating on me. He broke my heart, fully!. And that was always one of my biggest fears. So after that all my hopes in love were basically flushed down the toilet.
Am I some sort of Beth Copper?
Well kind of, I was always the popular girl in school but always friendly, the new kids, nerds, geeks, all of them, i would always try to be nice to and make them feel welcome, my friends would make fun of them I would tell them not to. I always take care of everyone's back.
And that's just the thing I guess, I take care of people and they're feelings, but no one seems to take care of me.
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I see you're 18 yrs old. I am 34, and I can tell you love is a bitch and a lover at the same time. My solution was after a situation similar like yours. I don't know your full background, but to tell you something about me, I was dating, flirting, partying like there was no tomorrow untill I fell in love, had my heart broken and moved on. You gotta believe me, when people say they won't ever hurt you, they lie, full stop! All people lie, but the trick in relationships is that you must love also enough to overcome these lies.
Anyway, my solution was to stop dating and build a foundation for myself on which I can build further. This means quit smoking, drugs, partying, dating, etc...and hit the books and study my ass off. I am now a successful businessman with a MBA and a master in engineering. I have a beautiful wife and two lovely daughters. But before I was 30 I had none of that. I graduated my masters in november 2005, but what this made me was to build confidence and discover who I am and what I want. So in a way I can relate to dennis, but I dated lost of beth coopers, the stupid kind, now I married the real beth cooper and there's up's and downs but the foundation is love and caring.
And what I think you should do is keep taking care of others but expect nothing in return, be grateful you have a good heart to care for others. But also take care of yourself. Besides your parents (is they're still alive, mine aren't) there's nobody that can care for you like you can do for yourself. And also exploit your talents and build that foundation together with caring for others. but don;t get pregnant, don't date seriously, don't drink and smoke and do drugs, been there done that, it's a bad path that way. And when you are older, say mid-, late 20s, after you finish college/university, then get a proper job get your own appartment/house, make sure you can provide for yourself and then you are ready to date seriuously. And when somebody brekas your heart again, you can fall back on your own accomplishments and say to them to screw themselves. Be indepentdant and strong in mind, body and soul.
Beth Cooper finally found out because dennis was determined to get the girl, but this is a hollywood movie, so the progression in this movie can easily span 10-15 years and not 1,5 hours.
My wife has a friend who was your typical beth cooper and was adored by this geeky nerd goofy like character on skateboards with ditto clothes and he got his beth cooper after 7 years of courting. So there ya go, it's possible but also be your own self, that's the most important thing.
I went on this thread and viddied what everyone else was saying, and I thought this devotchka would be like, real horrorshow ugly. But it turns out that this devotchka is like real horrorshow pretty, oh my brothers.
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i can relate to the fact that she feels like after high school, she doesn't know what else is there for her anymore. :(
you don't have to be a "Beth Cooper" to relate to that feeling.
I loved this movie, but I can't help it. I'm a helpless romantic. I believe in love and even more so, true love. I'm looking for my Beth Cooper, albeit not very hard. One summer, there was a girl who taught me some things like Beth did to Dennis. Mainly, how to live. We were very close and I swear that we could talk all night and never get tired of eachother. It was a great time. But she was digging on the more good looking guy so we didn't really advertise. I eventually stepped down when I realized that I couldn't do anything for her. She had to make her own decisions. I showed her that there are guys out there who would appreciate her for who she is. And she even called me when they were having problems and admitted that if she had stayed with me, I would have made her feel special every day. I've kind of fallen out of touch with her and haven't actually seen her in about three years. I've moved on since then. I don't know if she has, but last time I tried to meet up with her to catch up, she kind of gave me the brush off. I don't know if it was love, but it was the closest thing I'd ever felt to it. I just wish her the best in the future because she is truly a great person, but she just didn't seem to realize it herself.
shareIn the moment they watched the sunrise, I was like "just friggin' kiss already!" It was predictable at times with the dialogue. What I don't get is, why did she take off her gown at the beginning and say it was "hot" and then just walk away? Was she trying to entice him?
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Puerto Rican???? And smoking!!!!!!!!!
You just need to ease up on the weiner hunting and start hunting for hearts. Good guys can tell the difference.