Religious stance or not...
Homosexuality is NOT okay at all!!!! The follwing can be applied to any religious or non religious stance: Men can't reproduce with men and women can't with women. Dictionary defs. of marry and marrige only mention husband and wife/man and woman. Why is it okay to condemn all the other ways that kill us off? But not homosexuality? That kills too! (Men can't reproduce with men and women can't with women.) So condemning all ways of sometyhing except one...that isn't equality. That sounds more like double standard loving hypocrisy. And I find it funny how critics never want to answer as to why it's okay to condemn all the other ways except homosexuality.
But if you are religious: No Bible verse mentions same sex anything being condoned. Only condemned. Only hetero is looked upon with goodness. But if you are a different religion or non religious you would think that the diety or concept that crated us happened to make it possible for men to reproduce with men and women with women...but that's not the case. So excuse us who don't want society to be killed off!