how did the wheelers know cathy bates' family?
i've watched this movie several times and i like the scenes with "john" and that family interacting with the millers. the whole "it's the crazy guy who is extra perspective and speaks the truth the main characters won't"
but were they just old friends of one of their families? how did the wheelers know them? they didn't quite seem to enjoy their visits. how it seemed to me. but really, how did they know each other?