Helen


I know that is already brought up earlier on, but why was she so against the Wheelers? Was it because she was still upset that Frank nearly wallop her mentally unstable son?

You jump, I jump

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She wasn't against them exactly. She (just like Shep and Milly) thought that Frank and April was being a little too out there to be thinking about moving to another country and April work while Frank stayed at home. It was a time where "a woman's place is in the kitchen" while the men worked and they raised their children. She nit-picked at first (in the book anyway) about the idea that here Frank and April wasn't going to live in this "Cookie-cutter image" of living the way that people thought was the "right" way back then. As far as her being mad at Frank, in the book it mentions that when he sells the house, he meets her in a office to sign some paper's and they got along very well. He even hugged her before he left. I guess like most people she was just finding something to gossip and complain about in the final scene when she started talking about Frank and April's home. I also think that it kind of "hints" what made their marriage work because her husband tunes her out whenever she starts to complain.

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In the book, she tells her husband that she had found the dried up seedum plants in the basement. But that was after her husband had turned off his hearing aid. In the book she comes off as a really silly woman.

maggimae83

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I agree with Archer. It was not that she was "against" them. Their aloofness about suburbia and their talk of moving to Paris challenged and disrupted her own illusion and version of happiness. This is the same with Shep and his wife. We all tell ourselves little lies to feel good about our lives and the choices we make. In groups, there are shared lies, beliefs and choices which become stronger. The Wheelers unwittingly made every one insecure about their own lives. Unfortunately, instead of inspiring others to reach beyond their cozy confines their demise reinforced to all that their whimsy was foolish and they were right all along in conforming and resigning themselves to the mundane.

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