Why does Milly cry?
When the Wheelers disclose that they are moving to Paris, why does Milly cry to her husband, Shep? I theorized that she also is secretly very unhappy and thus jealous of April...thoughts?
shareWhen the Wheelers disclose that they are moving to Paris, why does Milly cry to her husband, Shep? I theorized that she also is secretly very unhappy and thus jealous of April...thoughts?
shareYep, I think that's exactly it. I think it was a mix of jealously and the idea that their lives were not "good enough" for the Wheelers. It probably had something to do with losing her friends too. It's possible she was unhappy with a housewife role, herself.
shareIsn't it also she knows there's a sexual tension between her husband and April? And that she feels she's not good enough for him. The first thing we see him say to her is 'are you wearing that?' about her dress.
shareYes I think you're right. However, I think it was also because of society's standards at the time and the fact that their plan to move to Paris, with April being the bread winner, was therefore very controversial. Read more about why here: http://alphashadowsblog.wordpress.com/2014/03/06/revolutionary-road-film-review/
shareYes I think you're right. However, I think it was also because of society's standards at the time and the fact that their plan to move to Paris, with April being the bread winner, was therefore very controversial. Read more about why here: http://alphashadowsblog.wordpress.com/2014/03/06/revolutionary-road-film-review/
shareTo me, it seems obvious that Milly had feelings for Frank, just like Shep had for April. I think several things point to this:
1) She seems really eager to go out and have a drink with Frank (and April) in the beginning.
2) When she and Shep is having the Wheelers over, Shep notices that she really dresses up, that could be because she wants to look good in front of Frank.
3) At the club, she also seems very eager to dance with Frank, and when she gets sick she is very apologetic about it.
Just be glad Milly didn't bang Frank like April did to Shepard. I was expecting him to admit that he cheated on her. Good thing he kept it secret, or else Milly'd be bawling. Poor ol' sap.
OH WAIT...
I never looked at it as Milly being in love with Frank. Very interesting. You make some good points certainly.
Milly and her husband conformed and fit in. But under the surface they were just as dysfunctional as everyone else in the movie. She seemed very unhappy. Almost desperate.
I thought they were tears of relief- April is willing to leave her life to go to Paris and work while her husband finds himself. She was scared that her own husband might get some ideas of his own. She was relieved that she didn't have to do something so drastic in order to keep him.
shareShe's unhappy and wishes she were free too. As long as April is miserable with her, at least she has company.
sharePersonally, I thought it was simply because she was afraid of Shep being or getting involved with April.
... the hardest thing in this world is to live in it...
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I simply thought it was Milly being sad for April moving away. She considered April her closest friend and both lived miserable lives but at-least they were together.
Now she was forced to be alone.
It also can be a bit of jealousy since Frank and April dared to break free, something she and Shep only dreamed of.
I think Milly secretly felt trapped and stifled like April did, but Milly had been comforting herself with the idea that there was nothing that could be done about it -- that this was just how life inevitably was, and there wasn't any other possible lifestyle available.
Then April and Frank (apparently) discover a (relatively) simple way out of the 1950s-suburban-nightmare that all the characters are stuck in, and (again, apparently) they have the will to take that exit -- and all of a sudden Milly is faced with the stark realization that she and Shep also *could* escape if they wanted to, and that it's really only their own social conditioning and fears that keeps them trapped -- and then, even after realizing this, Milly realizes that they will nevertheless go on just as before, trapped but pretending to be happy, because that is what is expected of them.
TL;DR: Milly was crying because she realized that she and Shep were their own jailers, and they would never let themselves free from their self-imposed prison.
I agree 100%.
shareShe was an overly-sensitive type, she merely cried because her friends/neighbours were leaving and she was going to miss them. Nothing else.
Ashmi any question
On the DVD-commentary they mention two possible reasons for her crying.
The first reason is that she generally was sad and upset that her best friend was leaving.
The other reason is much more symbolic and here she cries because she realised that the Wheelers, April in particular, was the glue that hold the Campbell marriage together. Had it not been for the Wheelers, Shep and Millie would have separated. And this has now come true and that's why she's crying.
Interesting theory, and I think it might be the reason.
Envy.
shareOn a more subconscious level, it was an example of the natural disconnect between men and woman. Generally, woman use their whole body to communicate- men only hear what is said.
Nowadays, with the internet and the boom of literature out there on relationships, there is more awareness to it.
But have people really changed that much in 60 years?
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