This movie really doesn't deserve the hate
I'm not a fan of Zach Snyder's Batman V Superman. It was a terribly directed and produced movie, as if it was done last minute on a patchwork story with grim aesthetics.
The case is not the same for Man of Steel, the movie that came before and gave us a new take on Clark Kent/Superman. He knows he's different, he knows he can do things he shouldn't be able to do and he's conflicted about his role in the world. It's a story of coming of age and finding your identity. I understand that premise.
Maybe - in Pa Kent's wisdom - the world wasn't ready for this type of Superman movie. Superman is supposed to be the bright hope, the optimist, the believer in virtue. Man of Steel gave Superman more psychological human frailty. He might think he was right but questioned it.
It wasn't a Superman people could wrap their arms around and love, because it wasn't Superman as he's always been presented. I think the critics reacted based on this pre-conceived vision of Superman imbedded in comic book culture. That's their right, they can dislike Snyder's version of the character but it gave me a better sense of Clark/Supes as a person instead of an image. That's where I think lots of viewers missed the heart of this movie.
Anyway, I just had to share. I'm a confirmed Marvel-head but feel like Man of Steel was very unfairly dumped upon.