So many women struggle with infertility. You are NOT one of them. Your P.O.S husband got tied up to NOT have anymore babies. That does not infertility make. So stop parading around as a poor suffering woman of infertility.
Be GRATEFUL that the IVF worked at all.
Stupid b*tch.
Did she say she was struggling with infertility?
shareYes! She says women battling infertility shouldn't be ashamed and a bunch of other bs
shareBut they shouldn't be ashamed of infertility.
shareOf course not. I just don't like Meghan aligning herself as one of them.
She should've been thrilled that she was pregnant with the one and not so focused on getting 2.
She is still happy to be pregnant but to know you had 2 and lost one it is still sad. It's like saying "I dont know why you're so sad that one of your kids died, you still have another one". I see nothing wrong or ungrateful for her being like that.
shareI am so with you mbee!!
shareOMG thank you so much talk about spoiled person's reaction. someone used to always getting their way. I just posted elsewhere how I went thru ivf and had 5 embryos put in but none of them made it. Be grateful is right!
shareI'm sorry, novelty. Are you doing okay?
Move along: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XleOkGsYgO8
I am sorry for your losses novelty. Having experienced such loss, it seems you would be more sympathetic. It doesn't matter how many of her embryos have survived, one didn't. Meaghan has the right to mourn the loss of that baby, that hope and what she wanted in her life. It is a death and she is allowed to be grieving. Jimmy understood that and was consoling her very lovingly.
I don't understand women who have such cold hearts they can say it's not something she should be hurt over. We are all different. I mourned the loss of my daughter's unborn twins much more than she and she understood.
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Like I wrote in another, similar post: Let's be honest for just a second here, there is no "baby." Embryo? Yes. Fetus? Maybe. But there was NO BABY!
Thank you! Also I'd be so happy I would have finally been pregnant that if other embryos didn't take it'd be fine. I just viewed it as really weird to cry at hearing her little one's heartbeat.
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Like I wrote in another, similar post: Let's be honest for just a second here, there is no "baby." Embryo? Yes. Fetus? Maybe. But there was NO BABY!
And science says otherwise. But please, go on believing your fairytales.
Wow, you sure are harsh. How unkind your heart is. You obviously are not Christian, so our ideas and ideals are diametrically opposed. No point in arguing.
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Not that I was paying that much attention, but when it comes to some people who aren't thankful for what they have, I roll my eyes too because of their self-entitlement and never being satisfied!
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She was happy about her pregnancy and sorrowful for her loss. You just refuse to be understanding about that.
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I well understand her! I've been close to a couple who struggled to get pregnant for years, going through several series of IVF treatments before they finally succeeded and had their child! Megan's a spoiled, petulant little girl who's accustomed to having everything go her way and will kvetch, b!tch, and moan if the hair color isn't right with her kid the 1st time she tries!
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Typical of you. Your most common response is anger and a whole lot of hatred. You don't know this girl, so it appears your response to her emotion is that you are judgmental of her grief, likely one of the saddest moments of her life. You want to put her down and call her spoiled and you have no empathy for her. Sad for you. You very often respond to other's pain with ridicule and anger. The message boards are full of your angry responses to the pain others feel.
I hope as you grow older that your heart grows to encompass compassion for your fellow man.
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Yea the whole, "well you have it better than others so you should just shut up and be grateful" mentality is embarrassing and myopic. It's always perpetuated by people who feel what they've gone through was "harder", people need to grow up.
shareJust b/c she's sad and was mourning the lose of 1 of the embryos, doesn't mean she isn't grateful for the one she has. I would think as someone who's gone through the same process that you would be more compassionate and understanding. I don't understand why people are so hateful and judgmental.
shareIt's very cruel that people are telling her to be greatful. Even on her Facebook. Someone said she should get over it since she got pregnant. I expect those who went through the process to be sympathetic period.
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Yea, you'd think so but a lot of them are just bitter people with victim complexes.
shareCan you imagine people having the time to be so ugly? To say they are being "honest" by not calling Meaghan's loss a baby? Wow! What an ugly heart that you would argue someone else's loss is not what SHE perceived it to be.
Meaghan, in her heart and mind was pregnant with twins, two babies. Why would any other "woman" be so nasty as to begrudge her mourning the loss of a life from her womb?
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Very well put.
She's allowed to have more than one emotion/reaction at the same time.
Megan's storyline seemed to have touched a nerve with many viewers-assumably because of experiences in their own lives, and I understand that. Infertility and loss of a pregnancy is heartbreaking. However, Megan is still young, and you can't blame her for wanting to have a baby, and it can't have been an easy time having to go through IVF, mostly on her own. She also did it on television.
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