Where are they now?
I think that in this show (if you have ever had an ED) you connected with all of them. I want to know how are they now? What are they doing? Did they ever get over their ED?
shareI think that in this show (if you have ever had an ED) you connected with all of them. I want to know how are they now? What are they doing? Did they ever get over their ED?
shareThe girls sometimes visit Lauren Greenfield's Thin forum from time to time, and I know they each have their own MySpace page (all but Brittany's are set to private). From what I know, they're doing a bit better, but they still face struggles resulting from their eating disorders. I don't believe anyone ever "gets over" an ED... the memories and health effects can stay with you for a lifetime.
~"Revenge is a meal best served cold".
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I went to Lauren Greenfield's website and saw messages that fans posted for the girls, but I didn't see that they'd been answered. Hopefully they're too busy talking good care of themselves to go back there. It might be even a little scary for some of them to go back and read the messages. If they're focusing on their own recovery now and need space, then that is the best thing they can do.
God save Donald Duck, vaudeville and variety
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I just read the brief passage in People. How incredibly tragic and disturbing. I was really hoping that she would get into recovery and do well. She must have been in a deep depression and feeling like there is no way out. Just heartbreaking and very unsettling. Her family must be in utter turmoil especially her mom. May Polly rest in peace and her family find the courage and strength to move forward.
A helpline for those that are considering taking their own lives: 1-800-SUICIDE
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>> I just read the brief passage in People.
Please tell me the DATE and the Issue # I'd like to find it at the Library in past stocked magazines.
Thanks!
Pollack Williams - HIXSON
HIXSON — Pollack “Polly” Ann Williams, age 33, of 1421 Cloverdale Dr., Hixson, Tennessee, died Friday, February 8, 2008, at her residence.
Polly was born in Memphis, Tennessee, and had lived most of her life in Johnson City, Tennessee. She was the daughter of Susan Lancaster Rule and George Alex Williams II. Her stepfather was Jim Rule.
Polly was a graduate of University High School in Johnson City, where she was a member of the Academic Decathlon that was ranked third in the nation. She graduated with honors from Virginia Tech, where she majored in English with a concentration in Shakespearean studies and a minor in communications. While at Virginia Tech she was a member of Kappa Delta Sorority. She remained an avid Virginia Tech “Hokie.”
Polly had been featured in Lauren Greenfield’s HBO documentary THIN. She was also a lobbyist for the National Eating Disorders Association.
Polly loved children and butterflies. She used her love for children in her work photographing children for LifeTouch studios with JC Penney Company. She received recognition for her photography by becoming the district event coordinator in Hixson LifeTouch Studios and by winning manager of the month, sales average achievement award and was featured in JC Penney’s master gallery photography book.
Her sisters remember that her life motto was simply “Believe.”
She is survived by her mother and step-father, Susan and Jim Rule, of Johnson City; her father, Alex Williams, of Gray; her maternal grandparents, Barbara and Hanes Lancaster; her fraternal grandmother, Isabel Daniels Williams, all of Johnson City; three sisters, Bebe W. Reed and her husband, Bo, of Cartersville, Georgia, Susan Staley W. Smith and her husband, Wayne, of Winder, Georgia, Betsy Williams, of Knoxville, Tennessee; and a stepsister, Courtney Rule Williams and her husband, Richard, of Johnson City. She is also survived by adored nieces and nephews, Madison Reed, Trey Reed, Staley Reed, Brackin Smith, Reed Smith, Lilly Ann Smith and Emma Williams.
Funeral services for Ms Williams will be held Monday at 8:00 PM at Morris-Baker Funeral Home South Chapel. Rev. Larry Nees will officiate. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 6 until 8 PM. Graveside services and burial will be at Monte Vista Memorial Park at 10 AM on Tuesday. Family and friends are asked to meet at the cemetery.
For those who wish to make contributions in memory of Polly, the family suggests National Eating Disorders at www.nationaleatingdisorders.org.
Condolences may be sent to the family via www.morrisbaker.com.
Arrangements are by Morris-Baker Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 2001 Oakland Ave., Johnson City, TN 37601. Phone: (423) 282-1521.
Shelly still posts occasionally on www.mamavision.com, which is an ED support site. The last post I saw from her was several months ago, but she was doing extremely well and is now married IIRC. I think I remember reading somewhere that Brittany was living with her dad and doing better (being away from her mom's influence) but I'm not sure where I saw that.
An idea is a greater monument than a cathedral.
Its been six months since the last update, thought I would try my luck and see if there are any recent updates on the women:) any news?
shareThere's another post from Shelley here: http://www.mamavision.com/mamavision/2009/08/shelley-from-thin-documen tarytwo-years-later.html. I have also seen her post on http://twistsis.wordpress.com/ in the past, but I don't know offhand when her last post there was.
An idea is a greater monument than a cathedral.
Thanks for the updates. Tragic about Polly---I really was upset when she was kicked out of Renfrew and thought it was so unfair!
Art is what you can get away with..
-Andy Warhol-
<< Tragic about Polly---I really was upset when she was kicked out of Renfrew and thought it was so unfair! >>
How is it unfair to hold people accountable for their actions?
Why should some people have to play by the rules, while others don't have to?
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I have kind of forgotten why I made that comment and can't remember the film very well either. I may give it another look.
Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead.
--Charles Bukowski---
<< I have kind of forgotten why I made that comment and can't remember the film very well either. I may give it another look. >>
I didn't mean to sound antagonistic : ) I'd need to watch the film again, too. I think I saw it about 5 years ago.
As I continue in my own recovery from various addictions, I do seem to notice, though, that the people who end up with clean time (from whatever the addiction is), are motivated, hardworking people who WANT to be clean.
No one else is putting a drink in our hand, or a needle in our arm, or a finger down our throat, or forcing us to be with abusive people. If they are, then the addict isn't guarding themselves by avoiding people, places and things. (It's impossible to avoid food, but it's not impossible to avoid purging, or starving.)
Basically, people do what they want to in this life. And we ultimately can't blame others for OUR OWN behavior. It's a bitter pill to swallow, and emotional to accept that after a certain age we're on our own. But that's part of being an ADULT, and not a "victim".
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Eating disorders are harder to recover from than hard drugs or alcohol, because you can very easily live without those. You have to have food to survive physically. So it's all behavior modification. That's a b*tch. It's why anorexia has a high mortality rate.
Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead.
--Charles Bukowski---
Polly's actions and choices caused her to get herself kicked out. She was given a number of chances. She was held responsible for her behavior and not allowed to manipulate the situation. I understand about having an eating disorder. I am old and have an ed. I know, first hand, about the manipulation one can do in order not to eat or to get to exercise. I understand Polly. But she made her choices. I am so sorry she is dead.
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Watched this movie many times, it's tragic but therapeutic to watch. Looked up Alisa online, she's still alive so that's good.
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