dlancer, I'm curious, do you consider someone with an alcohol or drug addiction to be ill, then? Would you tell an alcoholic to just stay away from alcohol and poof, declare them to be cured? I've seen this argument made a lot (and I'm not saying you would necessarily make it or would agree with it; I'm just using your post as an example), that eating disorders are a form of addiction, but while nobody says that just telling an alcoholic to stay out of a bar will cure him, people seem to think telling someone with an eating disorder to just go have a sandwich will cure the eating disorder. I've never understood that logic as it applies to eating disorders, and I've never even found someone who's willing to try and explain it beyond that knee-jerk reaction.
Also, it's worth nothing (and I don't think this gets brought up nearly enough) that many people with eating disorders either have other accompanying mental illnesses (depression, OCD, schizophrenia) and/or have suffered from abuse, particularly sexual abuse, in the past. Why do people who have been sexually abused and turn to drugs or alcohol as a coping mechanism receive so much more sympathy than people who have been sexually abused and develop eating disorders?
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