he couldn't have been better
I find it hard to imagine someone else acting as Charlie. I mean, Sandler has done some bad movies, some hilarious movies, and he has done good movies like this. This is every actor's story. But when it comes down to this, no one else could have played his role better. His personality, his voice, his character...was perfect. He did everything so damned well that he had me crying my eyes out.
Seriously, if you want to diss on sandler, go ahead. but don't diss on the greatest role he has ever done (in my opinion at least) without thinking with both sides of your brain. If I found myself in his situation, I'd be the exact same, and I doubt there are too many men who can say that. But as I am not afraid of my emotions, I admit to it.
So instead of saying he is a terrible actor, or this role sucked, put yourself in charlie's position and tell me...would you not act the same?