Beth vs Diane's circumstances....agai n (spoilers)
**Most of the posts I'm responding to where left almost a year ago however since this movie was on Lifetime this weekend, I'm sure others will comment.**
There are posts who say Diane was awful and Beth was correct in her actions, others say Beth was responsible for everything and Diane was reacting. Here's what we know...
Beth could've been more alert, she could've been more prepared on her job. This movie was only a slice of her life. Beth appeared to be the best mom she could be. Her "babby's daddy" had the opportunity to go to college and get into a career, that's applauded however Beth was at home being a fulltime mom. We don't know how life would've turned out if the father had full responsibility. I'm certain he would have taken a break at least or maybe not taken as many classes at one time. Beth and the father were responsible for the child, she made a decision to be raise him. Other posters have said the father was there but who knows if there were instances where she asked him to come and care for him but he declined because of homework or a preparation for a test. I don't think he's a terrible father, however I will see the mom made a lot of sacrifices.
Diane was a jerk as a driver. She did have the attitude that everyone's driving ability was an inconvenience. True, she had major responsibilities at her job. I'm someone who suffers from road rage and I have to remind myself while being out that its not the other drivers' fault because of traffic if I left later than I should. At any rate, Diane was rude to Beth, which was at the time of Beth's breaking point. Not Diane's fault but she did add to the situation. What isn't mentioned is that Diane flew by Beth almost hitting her when Beth leaned into her car) so though Beth could've paid attention while driving, Diane was not the safest driver either. With regard to her life, Diane was under a lot of pressure, just as Beth was. She was pulled from so many different angles with, seemingly, very little support. Diane's finances were very different from Beth but their aggitations seemed to be pretty similar however, its probable that she would've had more assistance than Beth. In other words, the loss of Beth's job is very different than the loss of Diane's promotion. (Its been concluded that Beth pushed people away and we just don't have enough information about why she does that.)
Some posters have cruely stated that Beth should've been aware of the problems in being a single mother. That's unfair to state, maybe family claimed they would be there and left her to fend for her child. Maybe others didn't want to be bothered with a child having a disability. Raising a child on your own is difficult but especially when the child has special needs. Yes, she got pregnant out of high school but she chose to raise the child which is commendable. Its clear, in the movie, she adored her son! I'll allow that argument to say this. Diane could've known her situation ahead of time as well. Who knows? Maybe her husband has had problems getting jobs for most of their marriage. She chose to stay in her situation just as Beth did. It doesn't make them wrong, does it?
At the end, Beth clearly saw the err of her ways. I think she realized that her behavior lead to a disaster and want to try to make it right. She didn't have to call 911 and admit to being wrong (it is a recorded line), she could've even tried to give a diferent version of accounts....well, maybe that's a stretch. :-) I believe if Beth had lived, she would've had a lot of regrets, I also think she would've tried to set a different path for herself. Maybe allow her ex to take her son so that she can return to school, etc.
Diane survived and though she lived to tell the story, I think she has regrets for shooting Beth. Maybe she asked about her (in the hospital) to see if she'd cause more problems or maybe she really wondered about Beth's well-being. I'm sure once all the information got out, Diane would've felt guilty that Ben doesn't have his mom anymore, that she was trying to help and that Beth was at a low point in her life. What no one has mentioned is when her family helps Diane get into the wheelchair, she looks very frustrated, sad, and regretful because of her now physical outcome. Even though she is still "with child," she lost her leg and who knows what other injuries she may suffer from. Its possible that Diane won't be able to work in her field anymore, maybe she won't want to. Even if she doesn't go to jail, her life is very different now and may be feeling guilty because she took a life. Who's comfortable with that?
One poster said both women should've been more understanding. In theory, that's great but sometimes the obstacles and weights of life can get to you and you do lose control. Unfortunately, this scenario ended in the loss of a life and complete changes for both families!