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anyone have zero sympathy for the people who whine about


how "degrading" and "wrong" porn is?


Let's see.

1. The women in these things choose to be there, and are getting payed. So why do so many women's groups attack and blame men as if it is their fault?
2. I'm pretty sure the majority of people who have looked at porn do not grow up to be rapists, despite these weird claims.
3. Even though women are attracted to men's bodies just as much as men are attracted to women's, only men's attraction is seen as "wrong" and "degrading". Ridiculous


It seems that these people are just trying to create hysteria and/or demonize men and boys

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Actually no, women don't tend to have attraction the same way. We despise seeing women degraded whether they choose it or not, and there have been various places where women were mistreated in this line of work. Complaining about porn does not in the least demonize men or boys; it's perfectly natural to want to look at unclothed bodies. But the men who live on this stuff or heavily promote it demonize themselves.

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Ron Jeremy seems like a cool guy. And there are lots of women who do porn who actually like it. Ask Nina Hartley and Sasha Grey.

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Sure, like the Playboy bunnies. Such shallow women have little chance of forming real LTRs.

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Nina Hartley and Sasha Grey are both VERY intelligent women.

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Ok, I'm a woman and this movie annoyed the friggin crap out of me
Like omg he is looking at porn frequently, and he is a teenager who is going through hormonal changes in his body. WOW LETS CHECK HIM INTO REHAB RIGHT NOW!!!!!
The fact he was soo into porn proves he is a typical normal male teenager!!!!
Cant believe the mum freaked out soo mkuch the 1st time. when i have kids and i catch em looking at porn ill be lke "here let me give you some good ones to watch"
lol

You hate us 'cause we're beautiful, Well we don't like you either

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It's one thing to not freak out, but offering them "some good stuff"? Gosh, what a great mom you'd be.

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LOL Sadistic? Yeah, I'm a sadist (not "a sadistic") because I'd want my sons to control themselves, and would be a better mother if I got them sex material? THAT should help make healthy boys. Besides, most sadists love..wait for it..porn.

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it was a joke...
geez lol.
Nah i wouldnt freak out
maybe if they did it 24/7 and were not able to function on other things then yes i would see it as a problem

You hate us 'cause we're beautiful, Well we don't like you either

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Lol Ok Amanda, sorry; you'd just be surprised what I've seen people say. I don't think I'd freak out either, depending on the porn, but even if you're ok with it, it'd be a pretty disgusting thing to catch your son doing.

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It is you who is pathetic, creepy, and without any apparent intelligence. If you tried addressing me without cussing or violent words about my body, you'd stand a better chance of keeping posts up for posterity. I have never been abused, and the fact that you'd ask about such a horrendous thing with mockery is further proof of what a pitiful creature you are. I'll see if I can explain this once again to an anus: I love sex, and art with tasteful nudity. I despise cheapening sex and rendering the body to be nothing but a public sex object, like the filth of porn does. Think you can understand, dim rod?

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Thanks for proving what a pathetic swine you really are. Not that I had any doubts.

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whitespirit26 sounds like a mangina


seriously, I see no reason to give a crap about this, at all.

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LOL First I'm a rabid Sumpter fan and now a lesbian? What pathetic insults you drudge up.

Shriek, I've given ample reason, but those who love porn naturally wouldn't give it any consideration. Mangina, sure; a real man isn't one who appreciates a woman as more than the sum of her parts, as Jodi Picoult put it, but one who squeezes his crotch while watching women have slutty sex or be mistreated in a sexual fashion; sure. Thank God I, as a woman, think more of men than that.

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Nope, can't stand a great deal of their theology.

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Yeah they could be, but it still doesn't help their relationships.

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Nina Hartley is married.

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I hope it's a healthy union. Is she still in porn?

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She is actually, I believe, though she doesn't do as much sex scenes anymore. Her husband is also in the porn industry though.

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Well that explains a lot. Ugh.

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