Women just see sex and sexuality differently then men

also something i posted elsewhere

as a woman i can safely say that i don't have a problem with porn as i watched it since i was 11 (i was secretly watching my parents VHS collection lol). and just to put myself out there, porn kinda confirmed my ambisexuality, and made me a chronic masturbater. HOWEVER i have never had a problem with it controlling my life and decisions. i DO however think the most degrading type of porn like BDSM is actually watched and enjoyed by FEMALES...that's the truth. despite popular belief guys aren't in to that type of hardcore porn.

i do find some of it disgusting and degrading, but i figure they get what they got payed for so *shrugs*. it reminded me of an episode of the boondocks where Riley said if you don't wanna get peed on you move out the way. and to say women are being exploited is kind of a slap in the face to other women. i know plenty of women who would rather liked the bathroom floors for a living then do porn. where as some of the girls in the industry had perfectly normal backgrounds and DEGREES and still chose to do it because they wanted too.

having said that


i do think women tend to get exploited in the media in other areas though. like print ads, commercial etc..but so do gorgeous guys. not to the extent of women though.,

Yeah, equal pay is SUCH a bigger disaster than psycho-sexual filth, disorders, and increasing aggression. And no, porn isn't fantasy, it's real people screwing around.

This is a pretty intelligent post for such a dumb-ass movie. There is a such a thing as porn addiction and the more general category of sex addiction, but there's also such a thing as food addiction, and that doesn't make food "evil". Yeah, porn is more the equivalent of a really unhealthy food, like say donuts. But most people don't constantly eats tons of donuts until they destroy their health, and even if they do, you don't blame the donuts or people that make the donuts. I'd say the same thing about pornography.

As for it hurting the people that make it, is it really the pornography that does the damage or society's attitude towards it? Many people that make pornography often have less sexual partners and are less promiscuous than a lot of other people. In that respect, it's certainly better than being a streetwalker. Aside from the recent fascination with anal sex (that might leave some female porn stars in adult diapers by the time they're 50), it isn't clear it has harmful health effects. But it does ruin reputations and excludes people from legitimate employment (like teaching). But most of this is the ATTITUDE people have towards it. Once upon a time stripping or pre-marital relationships or being divorced would also ruin a woman's reputation and damage a man's. Really, this is just the usual right-wing Puritan *beep* throwing stones. And if these people didn't watch porn themselves, they would never know what these porn harlots are up to.

It seems to me a really bad idea for women to attack porn and make things that much worse for the women who work in the industry, while allying themselves with people who are otherwise bitter enemies. Their whole premise is that men wouldn't have degrading fantasies about women if they didn't watch porn. But they WOULD. That's WHY porn is degrading toward women. Most men just don't fantasize about having a loving relationship with a life partner. But that's because there's a difference between fantasy and reality, and most men know the difference. And even if they don't, they're going to have degrading fantasies about women REGARDLESS of whether they look at porn or not. Porn is driven by male fantasies, a lot more than male fantasies are driven by porn. But if people accept that it's a FANTASY, they wouldn't get so uoset about it. Hollywood "rom coms" are not a realistic portrayal of how males really are, any more than porn is of women, but as long as both men and women realize this, there is little harm done.

This movie is just right-wing propaganda.

Sex originally was is and always will be intended for reproduction. Women carry the child, men don't. That is the biggest single reason for the difference concerning sex as processed by the male and female human brains.

When a women gets pregnant, their brains rewire themselves, so as not to kill their children (that was the reason) or neglect them.

Men's brains don't change much, apart from some increase in prolactin. Men are closer to being disposable compared to women, even when there is no sex.