Agreed with questioning the presumption about "hotness," but I'm going to go ahead and question the presumption about "married for life."
Not everyone marries with the intention of it being forever. And even if it is the intention, it's not a terribly reliable one.
I told my current husband that I was not promising to be with him for life (I already made that mistake with my first husband). Each day I'm with him is a day I'm choosing to be with him, so he will never have to wonder if I'm just staying out of obligation.
reply
share